Anchor Girl

Changes

2009-06-17T22:00:00.001-05:00

Sometimes life has a way of changing right in the middle of things.

And, suddenly you end up going in a completely different direction than you had planned or even intended.

When I first walked into a Weight Watchers meeting on Saturday, February 2, 2008, I never imagined the way in which it would completely change my life in more ways than just the weight.

On Wednesday, April 8, I parted ways with Junior Achievement. Good, bad, or indifferent...

Now almost 3 months later, I'm much happier and content with the direction my life is taking.

Don't misunderstand me... I certainly wasn't dissatisfied with my "old" life. I have an absolutely amazing and wonderful husband, Bob, who I sometimes wonder why he's with me. I have unbelievable parents and a great brother, sister-in-law and adorable niece --- as well as wonderful aunts and cousins and my "in-law" family too! And, I have many, many friends who are always there for me.

However, it wasn't until I made a major life altering change that I realized something that I'd been missing in my life --- purpose!!

I am now pursuing a career with Weight Watchers as a meeting leader! My weight loss journey was an incredible experience for me! (http://zeliecat.blogspot.com/2008/08/success.html) Now, I am able to help others reach their goals and find their own journey.

I began working for WW in January of this year as a meeting receptionist. I weigh-in members, distribute materials, prepare meeting stats/tallies, etc. I decided to work for WW at first to keep me in check with my weight loss. As employees, we have to weigh-in monthly and maintain our goal weight.

However, after working at a couple meetings, I loved it!

Soon after starting, I was given a permanent position as receptionist at the WW North Olmsted Center on Saturday mornings. (Yes, those of you who know Bob and I boat are probably wondering... how do you work on Saturdays and boat?? It's not easy... but, I have an incredibly wonderful husband --- I mentioned that already, right?? --- and he's been very understanding!)

I loved working at the meetings!! And, I know it showed both to the members and to my family and friends! I need to be at the WW North Olmsted Center by 6:15AM on Saturdays (Yes, I did say AM... as in EARLY MORNING!), so I have to get up at 5AM in order to get ready and get there in time. When the alarm goes off, I bounce out of bed and I'm on my way. Bob immediately noticed my change in attitude and happiness level.

Shortly after starting at North Olmsted, I met with my Territory Manager who suggested that I should attend BLS in May in Cleveland (BLS = Basic Leader Skills --- training to lead meetings). I said that I hadn't thought much about becoming a leader... but, I was honored that she considered me "leader material".

So, in mid-May I attended BLS and had an AMAZING experience!!! I met so many wonderful and inspiring people!!!

(Side note... all WW employees have to have been members and achieved Lifetime status, meaning... the members reach their goals, go through 6-weeks of maintenance and as long as they're within 2 pounds of their goal weight at the end of maintenance become Lifetime WW Members and can attend meetings for FREE.)

The day after BLS ended, I was given my first meeting assignment as a Leader at Strongsville Rec Center on Wednesday mornings. My very first meeting as a Leader was on my birthday (May 19)! (Check out my name under Strongsville Rec Center - Wednesdays @ 9:30am!!! http://www.weightwatchers.com/util/mtf/location_results.aspx?&pg=0&s=ZIP&z=44136&t=7&d=1,2,3,4,5,6,7&mt=)

Since then, I've been given 7 additional meetings... including one meeting At Work (where I go into a business once a week and hold a WW Meeting). In addition to my 8 meetings, I'm the Location Coordinator for the WW North Olmsted Center. I order inventory, merchandise the products, create bulletin boards, and keep the center running.

I'm absolutely loving my new "career"! I'm working my way up to full-time status with WW.

I feel as if I have PURPOSE!!! I'm so excited to be able to inspire members and to help them find their way along their weight loss journey. I've met so many wonderful people. And, I'm always amazed at their determination and attitude.

This new journey is unlike anything that I've ever done before. I'll be honest... at times, it's scary! But, the majority of the time, it's exhilarating and very exciting!!! I haven't been this happy in quite some time. (And, I must thank my husband for being so incredibly understanding and patient with me! I'm so lucky to have him with me on my journey through life!!)

I haven't been very good at blogging... actually, I've been downright awful! And, I keep saying, "I'll get better!" I will try. I promise! I've been busy with life's "detour". But, it's been worth it!

SYC St. Patrick's Day Party

2009-03-15T20:44:00.009-05:00

(I seem to only post about holidays!)

On Saturday, Bob and I attended Sandusky Yacht Club's annual St. Patrick's Day party... along with 10 of our wonderful boating friends. We had a great night!

Here are some pictures:

Me and the green beer! (Yes, I drank it!)

Bob & I ("infamous" self-portrait - 2009!)

Bob & I at the 2008 SYC Party! (LAST YEAR!!) Look at the difference. I had only been doing Weight Watchers for about 6 weeks. Crazy....

Ok...... back to a few more photos of my wonderful, yet crazy, husband, Bob, from THIS year's event!

New Year

2009-02-14T19:06:00.025-05:00

Well, it certainly has been a long time since my last post.

We celebrated Thanksgiving
(Bob proudly showing off his deep-fried turkey)

Christmas
(our 2nd Christmas as a married couple with our tree purchased on sale after last Christmas)

New Year's
(using Bob's new iPhone to take our "infamous" self-portrait)

and it's now Valentine's Day!
(photo with "hoops" from Hallmark's "hoops and yoyo" -- my Valentine's Day present)

Besides all the usual holiday festivities... there hasn't really been much to report. We spent today (Valentine's Day) going to the Marblehead Lighthouse in Port Clinton. One of our very first dates was a Saturday afternoon/evening spent "at the lake" in February 2004. That day, we visited the lighthouse and walked out onto the ice... where I almost fell through! (Not really... just my foot broke into the ice... but I was in no danger of falling in!

(These are some photos taken today! It was cold, windy and brisk! Looking at the lake, it's hard to believe that we boat on it during the summer. There was no sound from the water hitting the shore. It was fairly quiet... except for the wind!)

Today, after visiting the lighthouse and returning to the car to "defrost", we headed to Sandusky to have lunch at the Sandusky Yacht Club. We miss going there. Last summer, we ate there at least twice every weekend.

These next photos have nothing to do with anything... but they're too cute!!
(It's me and Schadling!)

Well, it's been 4+ months since I reached Lifetime status with Weight Watchers! I'm doing well. It's amazing how my outlook has changed on food. I make better choices and eat smaller portions. AND... I'm now working part-time as a Weight Watchers Receptionist! :-) I attend meetings and assist members with weigh-in and their meeting materials. I haven't officially been assigned to a weekly meeting, so I'm filling in at various locations. I'm really enjoying the work! I decided that this would be a perfect opportunity for me to assist others with their Weight Watchers journey. Since I had such a positive and rewarding experience, I want others to do the same. PLUS, as employees, we need to weigh-in monthly so it's great incentive to keep up my weight loss. (I'm currently 7 pounds below my goal weight!)

My Grandma

2008-11-05T21:10:00.009-05:00

My grandma passed away on Monday, October 27 at the age of 94. I will miss her more than I could ever express in words. She was an incredible woman, full of wit and charm.

She lived to see her 6 grandchildren get married, including Bob and I last October... and she even lived to see 6 great-grandchildren. The above photo of grandma and I is one of my cherished photos, along with another one taken with my mom, grandma and I on my wedding day. I will never forget my wedding day, not only because I married the love of my life... but, I will never forget my grandma's excitement to share in my special day. She smiled every time she saw me that day, and smiled when she saw Bob too. I feel so blessed that she was able to be there for the most wonderful day of my life.

My grandma was born in 1914. I keep thinking about all the things that she witnessed in her life. Two World Wars (among others); The Great Depression; the Automobile evolution; the invention of televisions, microwaves, computers...

I have so many memories of grandma. Our many, many, many shopping trips to KMart come to mind, as well as numerous macaroni dinners on Thursdays and Sundays at her house. And, pulling into her driveway and smelling the garlic as you got out of the car. Speaking of smells... I remember our "infamous" Christmas Eve meals of smelts, pierogis, french fries, green beans and the "special Christmas Eve noodles" which we never have any other day! I remember her babysitting my brother and I and playing cards with us and her singing us to sleep. I remember family vacations in the motorhome to Walt Disney World and Frankemuth, Michigan. And, thanks to Bob... I will always remember the way she'd wrinkle up her nose if she ate something she didn't like. (He always laughed when she did that!)

We all should be so lucky to live a full life surrounded by wonderful family and caring friends. I can only hope that my life is so wonderful and that I leave an incredible legacy like her.

Grandma... I love you and miss you very much!

Our 1st Anniversary

2008-10-14T20:52:00.015-05:00

Bob and I celebrated our first anniversary yesterday. I cannot believe a year has gone by! We had our 1-year old cake... which was surprisingly very good! :-)

The best part of the day was trying on my wedding dress! Since I've lost 50 pounds on Weight Watchers, I decided to try on my wedding dress to see how it fit.

(By the way... I'm now a LIFETIME member having made my goal and maintained the weight loss for 6 weeks. HOORAY!!)

Here's a "before" picture...
(courtesy of our photographer... Rich Pappas of Dreamcatcher Studios)

Now... here's an "after" picture...
(courtesy of my husband, Bob!)

My Sarah Experience...

2008-10-09T18:54:00.045-05:00

For those of you who know me... I am not a person who likes to talk politics. I don't even like to think about politics. It confuses me, frustrates me, and hurts my head. Politics just really isn't my "cup of tea".

And, for those of you that know this about me... you also know that my husband LOVES to talk politics, especially with people who don't share his same opinion. (He's always interested in what other people think and why... and he'll never tell anyone that they're wrong or silly for thinking differently than him. He truly wants to "see the other side".)

So given what you already know about me and about Bob... you might be VERY surprised to learn that Bob and I attended the John McCain/Sarah Palin Rally in our hometown of Strongsville, Ohio yesterday afternoon (Oct. 8) because I wanted to go!

Yes, I did say that I wanted to go! It was MY idea to go!

I am a Sarah Palin fan.

There it is... I said it!

I admire her.

I admire where she is in life and how she got there. She wasn't born into the "right" family and fell into the political world because of her last name. She didn't marry the "right" person and used that last name to carry her political career. She didn't cheat or lie or take bribes or do what most other politicians do in order to get where she is today.

She's unique. She's different. She's a "breath of fresh air".

And yet... she's ordinary.

She has troubles and worries. Her life isn't perfect. Her kids aren't perfect. And, maybe she doesn't use the perfect words all the time. But, that's exactly why people CAN and DO relate to her. It's why people believe in her. It's why people see hope in her. It's why people are so excited about her.

Why should we want more of the same? More of the corruption? More of the lies? More of the confusion? We should EXPECT more. We should DEMAND more.

Sarah Palin has broken through the "elusive" glass ceiling.

It upsets me to hear women say, "I'm a feminist. I believe that a woman can do and should be able to do whatever a man can do. I believe in strong women. I believe in empowering women."

Then, these same women who call themselves "feminists" say mean and horrible things about Sarah Palin. They say that she's only on the ticket because she's a women. They say she's a "sympathy" vote. They say that she should be at home with her children. They say she shouldn't be running a state or running for the VP office.

Women who say they're feminists and aren't over joyed by Sarah Palin's success are not TRUE feminists. They are SELECTIVE feminists. They don't support women. They only support women who share their same beliefs... their same ideals... and their same political views. (You can take that however you'd like...)

Women who are strong and powerful through their own abilities, like Sarah Palin, scare these so called "feminists"!

I will step down from my soapbox, and talk about the rally........

How I ended up at the rally
On the way to work this past Monday, I heard that McCain and Palin would be visiting the City Commons in our hometown of Strongsville, Ohio. I felt a strong desire to go. I talked to Bob when I arrived at work, and asked if he'd be willing to go with me. So, I RSVP'd online for tickets.

(To make a long story short... the decision was made the day before the rally to move the location to the Strongsville Recreation Center due to the threat of storms on rally day... people needed tickets to get in and even though there was on option to RSVP online, you still needed a ticket. It appeared that we were out of luck with no tickets... however, thanks to some e-mails I wrote and a generous person (who shall remain nameless...) I was able to secure us TWO tickets!)

Doors were set to open at 2:15pm with the programming beginning at 4:15pm and the McCain/Palin arrival around 5pm. We arrived at the Strongsville Recreation Center around 1:30pm... to see a MASSIVE line of people that weaved in and out of the parking lots surrounding the center.

My heart sank!

I knew that there was no way that everyone would make it into the building. Figuring that they gave away more tickets than could fit into the building... we still proceeded to find the end of the line (about a half mile away). We figured that a pre-determined number of people would be in the rec's gym, and then another pre-determined number would be seated in the banquet center watching the rally on closed-circuit TV.

We decided that we were not going to stay if we couldn't be in the gym.

The LONG wait in line...

I have NEVER seen so many people gathered together like that. It was incredible!

At 2:15pm, the line started to move...

About halfway to the doors, we passed by some protesters. The Obama fans would shot jeers and the McCain fans would shot jeers right back. It was somewhat amusing...

Everyone waiting in line was upbeat and excited... despite the fact that the majority of us weren't sure if we'd even make it into the gym! (And, the dark and cloudy skies threatening to pour on us at any minute...)

We made it!

At 3:40pm, we walked into the Rec Center lobby and went through the metal detectors. Around 3:50pm, we entered the gym!!! As we walked through the doors, the fire marshall was talking to a rally organizer. The fire marshall said, "I'm at my comfort level for the number of people in this room." The organizer said, "I'm happy with the number we have in here, so we can stop at any time."

Bob and I were literally one of the last few people to enter the gym!!! This turned out to be a good thing because there weren't many people behind us, so we had a clear path to the exit and could feel the cooler air coming in.

For the next hour, we listened to local politicians talk about why we should vote for them. And, the crowd began to grow weary... wanting McCain and Palin to arrive.

Inspiration!

One of the most inspiring moments of the entire day was a local singer who performed "I'm Proud to be an American". I actually felt my eyes welling up with tears. It was unbelievably moving to be standing in a gym with at least 2,000 other individuals all singing together.

All wanting the same thing.

No matter what your political beliefs.

No matter who you're voting for.

No matter who was about to get up on that stage....... I believe the experience of waiting in the long line and standing in the sea of people was an extremely empowering and awe-inspiring experience.

I'm having difficulty finding the right words to describe how I felt. Maybe you just needed to be there...

THE ARRIVAL!

Around 5:40pm, John & Cindy McCain along with their daughter, Megan, and Sarah Palin arrived on stage to deafening cheers from the crowd.

Cindy McCain introduced Sarah Palin. The crowded cheered... SARAH, SARAH, SARAH... it was unbelievable!!

And, Sarah spoke... (I won't go into the particulars... because it's not important to my story.) She truly appeared genuine. (And definitely more stunning in person...)

I kept thinking... here's this incredible woman from Alaska, of all places... and people in Strongsville, Ohio, of all places, are chanting her name!

How does she feel?

What is she thinking at this exact moment?

Does she ever wonder how she got to this point?

Does she ever stop to think about everything that's going on?

Does she realize what a role model she is?

A little girl across the room held up a pink sign that read... "When I grow up, I want to be Sarah Palin!" There were so many little girls in the room, straining to get a glimpse of her... standing on their tip toes... asking to sit on their father's shoulders... What a powerful and memorable experience for them! I thought about my 2-year old niece and what she has to look forward to as she grows up.

(I'll quickly get to the end... and the GOOD PART... following Sarah... she introduced Brady Quinn and Joe Thomas from the Cleveland Browns. Quinn introduced McCain, and McCain spoke.)

NOW... the GOOD part!

Unfortunately, Bob couldn't stay until the very end because he had to get to a boating class that he was teaching. So, he left shortly after 6pm. But, I stayed until the end.

Following the conclusion of McCain's speech, the four of them proceeded to follow along the edge of the stage (behind the barriers) and shake hands and sign autographs with the crowd. At some point, I realized that the number of people in the room had decreased, and I was able to move forward toward the stage. McCain, his wife and daughter, moved quickly around the perimeter of the stage and left the gym.

However, not Sarah!

She spent over 20 minutes greeting the supporters... shaking hands, signing autographs, kissing babies, and even signing babies butts!

I stood there and watched as Sarah greeted people... polite and courteous. Her actions and words were very genuine. She truly appeared to appreciate everyone's out pouring of support... as if she was humbled by all the attention. She took the time to engage people in conversations. And, look beyond the people standing right in front of her to those standing further back. She didn't embody the "politician presence" that so many of them exhibit.

She was standing there... right in front of me... and I was in awe.

At one point I realized that I was too busy snapping photos to realize that I could have reached my arm out and had her autograph my sign.

Soooooo close....

She moved to the back of the stage where the VIPs were sitting and I decided to start heading for the door. But, I realized that the barrier had been moved and people were walking into the area trying to meet Sarah.

So, I walked over and came sooooooo close to getting her autograph. I held out my sign in front of her. BUT... the secret service guy next to her, pushed my sign back... and the secret service guy behind me pulled my elbow back. Soon after, she had left the gym as well.

Final Thoughts...

I left the Strongsville Recreation Center knowing that I had experienced something special that day, something great.

I am a Sarah Palin fan.

She's an inspiration, not only to women but to men as well. She's a regular person who has risen to such a high position by working hard and fighting for what is right.

Whether you have the same political views as Sarah Palin or not is irrelevant. The fact that she is who is and has accomplished what she has is reason enough to admire her.

No one owes her anything. She does not ask for anything. She goes out there with a "matter of fact" attitude and gets the job done.

But most importantly:
(And these are words taken from someone I love and admire very much... you know who you are...)

She does not ASK for your respect or mine. She EARNS it on her own.

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I have to say that I'm quite impressed with myself for writing this blog entry. I think this is the most that I've ever "talked" politics. And, technically... I didn't "talk" politics. My admiration for Sarah Palin has nothing to do with government or political views or right vs. wrong... but, more to do with an ordinary woman doing extraordinary things. Sarah Palin has proven that women can and will continue to do extraordinary things.

I hope that little girl with the pink sign grows up to be just like Sarah Palin. Our world can use more ordinary women doing extraordinary things!

Condo for Sale!

2008-09-26T09:31:00.003-05:00

19834 Dell Dr is a beautiful free standing cluster home nestled in a wooded area of Strongsville, Ohio. More like a house than a condo, the home does not share a wall with any neighbor. The home has 3 bedrooms, 2 full baths and one half bath. Located almost in the center of Strongsville on a cul-de-sac street, the neighborhood is very quiet and well maintained.

Visit www.funautical.com/dells for more information!

Happy 30th!

2008-09-07T20:23:00.003-05:00

Happy 30th Birthday to my brother, Stephen!!!

It's hard to believe that my "little" brother is 30!!! I will always think of him as my "little" brother... but, he's truly not "little" anymore. He's all grown up... married... with an adorable daughter who will be 2 years old in a month.

Bob and I, along with my parents and grandma, were invited to my brother's house for a yummy meatloaf dinner that my sister-in-law cooked (per my brother's birthday request).

Grandma, you will be missed...

2008-08-25T20:46:00.003-05:00

Today we lost a wonderful and caring person... Grandma Mueller. The photo above was taken on our wedding day last year. Bob and I feel so blessed that Grandma and Grandpa Mueller were able to attend our ceremony. With their health problems, there was serious doubt that they would be there to share in our special day. But, as I stood in the back of the church, my girls came in to tell me that Grandma and Grandpa Mueller had made it. I was so excited! And, my photographer told me before the ceremony that he even convinced them to take a photo with Bob... which I'm sure was no easy accomplishment! (Unfortunately, they left the church immediately following the ceremony, so there wasn't time to take a photo of Bob and I with them... but, the one above will be cherished forever.)

Grandma and Grandpa Mueller welcomed me into the family long before Bob made it "official" and put a ring on my finger. One of the first times that I met Bob's extended family was at a gathering at his grandparents house for his grandma's birthday. They are such warm and welcoming people, and I always felt right at home with them. Through the past few years, Bob and I have frequently brought dinner over to their house and would spend hours talking about politics and other worldly events. (And recently, they have both been so supportive of my weight loss journey... encouraging and congratulating me each step of the way.) I truly enjoy each of our visits with them! And, I believe that they enjoyed our visits just as much as we did. There's a great Chinese restaurant in Medina called Happy Garden, and we often bring food from there for dinner. (It's so yummy!) Grandma Mueller would get something different each time we visited. Bob once asked her if she planned to try the entire menu, and she said yes!

I will miss Grandma Mueller dearly. She had a great laugh and warm smile! Even though, I married into the family... I consider Bob's family as my own.

Grandpa Mueller is already asking when we'll be bringing Happy Garden again for dinner. Next time, I might just have to stray away from my "usual" and try something new in honor of Grandma. :-)

SUCCESS!!!

2008-08-17T20:53:00.017-05:00

Meet the "new" me!!!!

On February 2, 2008, I began a journey of finding the "new" me!

On August 16, 2008, I completed the first phase of that journey. I reached my Weight Watchers goal!!!!

I started my journey weighing 232.8 lbs. During my journey, I lost 48.8 lbs. to reach my goal weight of 184 lbs.

The journey began when I walked into the Strongsville Recreation Center for my very first Weight Watchers meeting on February 2. I went alone and knew no one. As I was signing in at the front desk, a lady was in front of me and asked if I was going to Weight Watchers. I said, "Yes, I'm new." She said, "My name's Pat. You can follow me and I'll help you!" Pat became my first "Weight Watcher Friend" and a wonderful motivator and celebrator of my successes.

I never thought getting to goal would be possible. I figured that I'd stick with the program for a few weeks, or even a month or so and then give up. But, I totally surprised myself! I read all the materials, used the online resources and talked to everyone I could find who was currently in Weight Watchers or who had done the program. Once the weight started coming off that was all the motivation I needed to keep going.

When I reached my goal on Saturday (8/16/08), my WW friend, Pat, was there to celebrate with me! Whenever I had something to celebrate at the meeting, Pat stands up and says, "It's Happy Dance Time!!" She'd dance around in a circle and wave her arms above her head. She told me that when I reached goal, she would form a "Happy Dance Congo Line!"

So, when Jen (our fabulously wonderful leader) came to the "Celebration" part of the meeting on Saturday, she asked me to share my good news. "I made goal!!", I shouted!!!! Everyone clapped and cheered. Pat stood up, and said, "It's Happy Dance Congo Line time!!" I jumped up and Pat followed me around the room while we cheered.

As I type this... it may sound crazy to you... but, let me tell you, it was fabulous!!!! There were a few members at the meeting who I've seen before. We're familiar with each other's journey and progress, and have chatted before/after the meeting. And, there were some people who I'd never met before. But, at that moment... it didn't matter! EVERYONE was excited for me because I had made my goal!!

It was an amazing feeling that I'll never forget!! I have gained so much support and confidence from attending the meetings each week. (I'm so dedicated that even though we're boating on the weekends in Sandusky and I can't attend my regular Strongsville meeting, I attend a meeting in Sandusky! But... I always wish I was in Strongsville with my regular WW friends!!!)

So, without further delay... let me share with you some pictures to show my progress: (You can also look at some earlier posts for some "pre-NEW ME" photos!)

September 2007 (photo date Sept. 15, 2007)

Christmas 2007 (photo date December 25, 2007)

Valentine's Day 2008 (two weeks after starting Weight Watchers)

Keith & Kristen's Wedding (photo taken April 5, 2008)

New Hair and Color in celebration of WW 10% goal
(photo date April 29, 2008)

My Birthday Weekend (photo date May 17, 2008)

July 2008 (photo date July 16, 2008)

GOAL!!!! (photo date August 16, 2008)

Earlier in this post, I said that on August 16, 2008, I completed the "first phase of the journey". Yes, even though I made it to my goal... there's still more to come. For the next 6 weeks, I will go on a maintenance plan where I'll increase my daily food and attempt to stop losing weight and maintain my weight. At the end of the 6 weeks, if I am no more than 2 lbs. over my goal, I will achieve LIFETIME MEMBER status with Weight Watchers!!!! (No more paying for meetings!!!)

AND........... I'm eligible to work for Weight Watchers! I can become a Meeting Leader or a Meeting Receptionist. My leader, Jen, has already asked me if I'd be interested and I said, definitely! :-)

I'm so proud of myself for everything that I've accomplished. I worked hard and made a HUGE and HEALTHY lifestyle change!! I couldn't have done it without the support of my wonderful family, especially my parents and grandma.... and my wonderful friends.

And most importantly my amazing husband!! (who has even lost some weight himself just from eating my new healthier cooking and trying to make better food choices for himself) Bob has truly been a wonderful support to me every step of the way. And, I'm certain that I couldn't have done it without his constant encouragement and love!

(Side note... it's been quite awhile since I've posted... and I haven't even talked about the week-long boat trip that Bob and I took at the end of July. I'll save that for another day!)

Random Thoughts

2008-07-03T09:58:00.003-05:00

Sometimes you stumble upon something that you wish you hadn't found. (And, of course, you feel the need to share it with a good friend.)

Here's my thought for the day... People who post on blogs shouldn't post things that they don't want to be found. Also, those same people should just tell people that they dislike them instead of "pretending".

I happen to think very highly of my friend... and her adventurous sense of life and positive attitude! Maybe you're just jealous........

ANYWAY... I'm stepping down from my soapbox now. Some people just aren't worth worrying about.

It's the day before the 4th of July, and I took the day off. (Yeah!! 4-day weekend!!) Bob and I are heading to the boat... as soon as the nasty rain stops. Tomorrow's the 4th... and that means it's the annual Mueller July 4th Party (at the in-law's house)! Bob and I will be heading there in the morning to help with set-up and then spending the afternoon hanging out with family and friends. Let's hope the weather cooperates. We might be heading to the north-side of Kelley's Island on Saturday to anchor-out and swim. We'll have to wait and see what the weather's like...

It's going to be a great 4-day weekend. I better get myself moving. I still need to pack.

Happy 4th of July!!!! Hope it's full of fun!! :-)

P.S. I missed my WW weigh-in last week due to our trip to Put-in-Bay. I'm going Saturday a.m. and will have an update for you...

Old photos

2008-06-20T19:46:00.005-05:00

I was going through some old photos the other day and came across the following:

(This was in May 2007 with my niece.)

(This one was taken one week before my wedding in October 2007.)

It's amazing to me the changes that I have made through my Weight Watchers journey over the past 20 weeks. I know I keep talking about it... but, when I find pictures like these, I can't help but notice the wonderful things I've accomplished!

I'm excited to be going to my regular WW meeting tomorrow morning! With the start of boating season, I haven't been able to attend my normal meetings. It will be a nice treat to see all my favorite people. And, following the meeting... I think I'm going to head to the mall and "treat" myself to some new "skinny" clothes!! :-)

New Me!

2008-06-15T20:55:00.006-05:00

As promised... here are some pictures of me!

This is a "self-portrait" the first night on the boat this season! (Taken 5-17-08 -- also happens to be my grandma's birthday!)

Here's one of Bob & I on my birthday! (5-19-08)

Of course, we couldn't have ZelieCat blog without a picture of my cute kitty, Zelie!!

News Flash...

2008-06-13T08:46:00.003-05:00

I fit in a size 12 skirt this morning!!! HOORAY!!!! (Considering when I started WW in February, I was hovering around a size 18... this is a HUGE accomplishment!)

I haven't worn this skirt in YEARS!!! It's a denim knee-length skirt that I bought while in CT visiting my friend, Traci, in July 2003 at a Ralph Lauren Outlet! My husband, Bob, has never even seen me in it. I don't think it fit by the time I met him in January 2004 (or, at least I wasn't wearing it in the winter, and by the time summer came, it didn't fit).

Anyway... I paired my skirt with a really cute top and wore it to work today. I'll need to take a photo so that I can post it.

Oh happy day!!! :-)

Signs of Spring

2008-06-12T21:45:00.003-05:00

There are sometimes in life when you wish you had a camera to capture a moment.

Yesterday morning was one of those moments...

I was standing in our dining room, looking out the window into our backyard. I looked down and noticed a bunny rabbit nibbling on some grass. I watched him for a few moments, and then left to finish getting ready for work. Before I walked out the door, I went back to see if he was still there. He was... and he had another friend with him. As I looked past the two rabbits, I noticed a mother duck and 6 baby ducks walking toward the creek at the back of our yard. All of them walked down into the creek, and the mother duck walked up onto the opposite bank. One by one, each baby duck jumped out of the creek and landed successfully on the opposite bank... all except for the last baby. He tried 3 times before he successfully made it.

I knew by the time I ran to get my camera, the two rabbits and mother duck with her babies would be gone. But, it was such a sight to see... all in our backyard.
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It's been awhile since I've posted. So, I'll give an update on my Weight Watchers progress. I've lost 35 pounds since starting the program 18 weeks ago. :-) I need to post some pictures to show off the "new me". :-)

Another year older...

2008-05-19T20:06:00.002-05:00

Happy Birthday to me!!!

Today, I turned 31 years young! :-P (And... one year ago today we moved into our house!!)

I decided to take the day off. (I took last Friday off too and had a 4-day weekend!)

Bob took the day off as well to celebrate my birthday with me. I wanted to spend the day looking for a new car. So, we went to 4 car dealerships in 6 hours. And, I have it narrowed down to two cars... not the two cars that I would have thought I would be considering. If you asked me a week ago, I would have said I would be purchasing a Toyota RAV4 or a Kia Sportage. But, after all the hours of "tire-kicking" (as Bob likes to say), I'm deciding between a Dodge Journey or a Hyundai Santa Fe.

We'll see what happens. I'm not ready to go out tomorrow and make a purchase... although, it would be nice to have a new car. I've had my current car for 6.5 years. My red Pontiac Sunfire has over 93,000 miles on it. It only had 241 when I purchased it in February 2002. It's been a great car... and I've had a lot of good memories with it. But, I think it's time to move on to something new.

So, after a long day of car shopping, Bob and I went to Macaroni Grill for dinner. (My favorite!!) Actually, I had all my favorites today... Starbucks for breakfast, Chipotle for lunch, and Macaroni Grill for dinner... along with chocolate cake smothered in hot fudge and whipped cream as a birthday treat from Macaroni Grill. Needless to say... this wasn't a Weight Watchers friendly day... but, this has been the first day since I started WW 15 weeks ago and that I didn't follow my points. But, I'm ok with it! I've been doing absolutely wonderful, and I'm very pleased with my weight loss so far. One day filled with all my favorites isn't going to erase my progress! :-)

After dinner, I opened my present from Bob. He got me the Coach cellphone case to match my new Coach purse that I got for myself after reaching my 10% weight loss goal. (See my post from April 23!!!)

Now, I'm off to watch some TV before heading off to bed. My birthday was a very exciting one, and I'm happy that I got to enjoy the day with my wonderful husband! :-)

The BIG 3-0!!!

2008-05-12T18:22:00.004-05:00

Yes, I already DID turn 30 last year. (Actually, almost a year ago one week from today.)

No, the BIG 3-0 that I'm referring to is the fact that I've now lost 30.4 pounds in my first 14 weeks on Weight Watchers!!

It's still crazy to me how well I've been doing. I'm loving my new skinnier self! :-) And, I'm fitting into clothes that I haven't worn in YEARS! It's like getting a whole new wardrobe without the shopping. (Although, I'm itching to go out shopping for some new smaller-sized clothes!!)

Yesterday, Bob and I hosted our families at our house for a Mother's Day dinner. My parents, grandma, brother Stephen, sister-in-law Sarah, niece Sophia, Aunt Carol, cousin Traci and Bob's parents all gathered for a dinner cooked by Bob and I! We also celebrated my birthday.

New Purchases

2008-04-23T21:41:00.009-05:00

I decided when I started Weight Watchers that when I reached my 10% goal, I would treat myself to a Coach purse. (

I know it's frivolous... and probably irresponsible to spend $200+ on a purse... especially when my wallet in the purse won't have $200 in it... but, I've always wanted one. And, now I have a good excuse to get one.

So, last night, my friend, Kelly, and I headed to the Coach outlet at Aurora Farms. (If I'm going to get a Coach purse, I'm not going to spend full price on it! Give me some credit at least. LOL!)

I found a purse, wristlet and wallet --- all matching! Here's a picture of the wristlet. (No, I didn't take the picture. I swiped it from the internet.)

As I stepped to the counter to make my purchase, I started to have second doubts. How could I spend that much on a purse??? But, Kelly reminded me that since I started WW 12-weeks ago, I have only purchased my lunch 2-3 times total. Prior to WW, I was buying lunch at least 3-4 times a week. I have probably saved more in the 12-weeks by not buying lunch than the Coach purchase was going to cost me.

You gotta love Kelly's thinking!!

So, I made my purchase. And, I proudly carried my new purse to work today. Hooray for me!

And, speaking of purchases...... I have found an absolutely wonderful jewelry maker. Her name is Nicole, and she is the proud owner of lillyella. (www.lillyella.etsy.com) Please check out her website. Her prices are very reasonable for such exquisite jewelry. Her pieces are very unique, and very well crafted. And, she's more than happy to work with you to change a piece of jewelry currently on her website (color, length, etc.), or even to create something completely new just for you!

I purchased this necklace! She made matching earrings too. I've received so many compliments.

And, today... this necklace arrived in the mail with matching earrings, of course. I can't wait to wear them!! I'm usually a silver girl, so this is definitely different than anything else that I own. But, I was just drawn to it. The photo doesn't convey the beauty.

Please check out her website. And, tell your friends!

www.lillyella.etsy.com

She's very talented!!! Her jewelry would make great gifts. Don't forget... Mother's Day is coming up, along with graduations and I'm sure some birthdays!

If you make a purchase, tell her that Stephanie referred you! :-)

Happy Shopping!!!

P.S. I'm up to 26.2 pounds lost in 11 weeks! :-)

Many Going On's...

2008-04-13T19:10:00.008-05:00

So, the first and BIGGEST thing happening is my progress with Weight Watchers. I've reached my first milestone. I lost 10% of my starting weight. Actually, I've lost MORE than 10%. Since starting WW on February 2, I have lost 24.2 pounds!!!!

I fit in clothes that I haven't been able to wear in years. I feel awesome! (And, I look great too... if I can say so!)

I still have some weight to lose to get to my goal weight... but, I am on track, feeling great and inspired to keep going!!!

Last weekend, Bob and I traveled to Fernandina Beach, Florida for Keith & Kristen's wedding. (Keith is Bob's brother!) It was a beautiful weekend in 80 degree weather and sunshine (except for the massive UGLY thunderstorm just prior to and during their wedding ceremony). Keith and Kristen rented a beach house on the ocean for the entire bridal party and their significant others to say in for the weekend.

Here's a picture of me and my mother-in-law, Pat!

(Please excuse my hair. The thunderstorm that I just mentioned... well, I was in the shower getting ready for the wedding when the electricity went off in our beach house. Yes... no power means no hair dryer. UGH!)

Of course, Bob & I took our "infamous" self-portrait!

Unfortunately, I don't have a full length photo of myself from the wedding. I went shopping for a dress and got a size smaller than I've been wearing. :-) I received many compliments!

Last night, Bob & I attended Pajama Jam at the Marriott Downtown. The event benefited Junior Achievement, and it was my responsibility to oversee it. Yes, as the name suggests... we wore our PAJAMAS!!!

The Marriott did an awesome job with the decorations! They even had beds set-up to keep with the theme!!

Here are some of my co-workers!

Of course, Bob & I took a self-portrait! :-)

Junior Achievement Pajama Jam

2008-03-27T16:29:00.006-05:00

Leave your ball gowns and bow ties at home! This is not your ordinary fundraising event.

You'll need to wear your best pajamas and favorite slippers to this event!

(click on the photos below to see the details BIGGER!!)

Check out www.jacleveland.org/pajamajam.htm for more details! And, tell all your friends about it!

(Yes, I know this is a shameless plug for my event... But, a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta go to sell tickets!)

WW Update & St. Patty's Day @ SYC

2008-03-16T17:39:00.005-05:00

First of all... let's get to the GOOD stuff!!!! I had my weigh-in on Saturday a.m. (I missed last week's weigh-in due to the MASSIVE amounts of snow we had here. GRRRRR!!)

BUT... in those two weeks, I lost another 5.4 pounds... taking me to a total weight loss of 16.4 pounds in 6 weeks!!!!!! I'm so excited!!!!! I have another 8 pounds to lose to get to my first goal of 10%... and my Coach purse!!!! (I promised myself that when I made my 10% goal, I'd buy myself a Coach purse!!!) I'm so proud of myself that I've stuck with it. The fact that I cook A LOT more now, and don't eat out for lunch are helping immensely!!!

Now, on to the "lesser" important things... Bob and I joined the Sandusky Yacht Club a few weeks ago. Some of our friends from the Berea Power Squadron as also members. 15 Berea members gathered together last night for SYC's annual St. Patty's Day party. A FABULOUSLY good time was had by ALL!!

Here are some pictures...

Bob and I getting ready to party!!!

Dan and I having much fun!!

Weigh In Day

2008-02-23T10:17:00.002-05:00

This morning was my Weight Watchers weigh in. I knew that I had lost some weight, because I've been feeling better and my clothes are loser.

I lost another 3.6 pounds this week. My 3 week weight loss total is 10.4 pounds!!!!!!!

I'm so excited!!!!! I have to treat myself to something nice since I've reached the 10 pound milestone. Any ideas?!?!?!?

WW update

2008-02-17T21:03:00.002-05:00

I attended my weekly Weight Watchers meeting on Saturday for my "weigh-in". I lost another 2.6 pounds. So, that brings my total to -6.8 pounds for the first two weeks.

Yeah! Go me! :-)

I'm feeling greater. And, the program has actually been quite easy. We'll see how I do this week. I have dinner out with Crystal & Melissa, and two networking events. But, I'm confident that I will do well.

2008-02-14T19:50:00.001-05:00

New Year, New Me

2008-02-04T20:38:00.001-05:00

I decided to start Weight Watchers on Saturday, February 2.

I had my first week weigh-in this morning.

I lost 4.2 pounds in the first week... and I'm so excited!!!

Bob and I have been talking about doing Weight Watchers for awhile, but neither one of us took any steps toward starting. With everything that was happening last year (engagement, new house, new job, wedding), we didn't need another "thing" in our lives.

But, after seeing how well my most-favorite cousin, Traci, has done with WW, and talking to my friend, Kelly, at work, who has also experienced success..... I decided it was time for me to try!

I attended my first meeting last Saturday. I met a REALLY nice woman named Pat, who offered great advice and support. I saw again at the meeting this morning, and she was so excited to hear my great news.

I'm feeling good. And, I've even noticed that my pants are fitting slightly looser (which is always a great thing).

I'll keep posting my progress as I go... and hoping the pounds will continue to fall!

Happy 2008!

2007-12-31T23:45:00.000-05:00

Another year is here! It's going to be tough to beat 2007.... where I got engaged, bought a house with Bob, got a new job, and married my best friend and love of my life!

But, I'm definitely looking forward to 2008!

To all my family and friends.... may 2008 bring you love, happiness and surprises!

Christmas Eve

2007-12-24T22:03:00.000-05:00

I wanted to take a moment to wish all my family and friends a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!

In this crazy busy time of year... stop and take time to enjoy the ones you love, and to tell them how much they mean to me.

I am looking forward to spending Christmas with Bob... our first Christmas together as a married couple. I can't believe that a year ago, we weren't even engaged. Wow... how time flies. It doesn't even seem possible that the wedding was almost three months ago.

I wish you all much joy and peace during this special time of year!

Wedding Video

2007-12-02T20:25:00.000-05:00

It's been awhile since I've posted.... but, I haven't really had any news to share. But, this is definitely worth the time to post!

We got our wedding video back from our videographer, and it's AWESOME! I'm so glad that we got one, and that we used Chris. The video quality is crystal-clear, and wonderfully done. The video perfectly captures our special day.

Most people say that their wedding day goes by so quickly that they don't have time to stop and take it all in... or remember everything that happened. There are parts of our day that are a "blur" to me... but, luckily and I remember most of it. And, watching the video really helped to remind me of the day.

I want to share a short part of our wedding video. Following our EARLY 11:30am ceremony, we spent almost 4 hours taking photos at Coe Lake in Berea, as well as a couple other locations in the MetroPark areas of Berea and near Lake Erie. Our videographer, Chris, put together a video montage of these special moments.

And, we LOVE it!

Please enjoy the video! (And, don't forget to leave comments!!)

Favorite Wedding Photo

2007-11-09T18:57:00.000-05:00

Here's my favorite wedding photo. It was taken by my new in-laws' friend, Glenn. I think it truly captures the day and us! :-)

Wedding Toast

2007-10-27T21:30:00.000-05:00

My bestest friend, Michell, was my wonderful maid-of-honor for my wedding. She gave an absolutely beautiful toast during our Wedding Reception, and I wanted to share it with everyone.

Michell --- you are truly a wonderful person, and I am very lucky to have you in my life. We've been through a lot, and I will cherish those memories for a lifetime. I look forward to the future, and all our new memories!

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Hello! I'd like to take a moment to say, Stephanie, you look absolutely beautiful today! And Bob, well, you don't clean up too bad either...

I am honored to stand here today with all of you as we witness my best friend Stephanie marry the love of her life and her very best friend Bob.

For those of you who may not know me, my name is Michell. Stephanie and I have been friends for about 7 years now, since she worked at the Great Lakes Science Center where I also volunteered. I've always tried not to take it personally that she quit working there just a few weeks after I started!

I knew being friends with Stephanie would be an adventure right from the start. The first time we ever hung out together, neither of us had much money. We decided to just rent a DVD, get a frozen pizza and go back to her place. As I recall, the DVD player wouldn't work, and in our extended efforts to figure out the problem, we overcooked the pizza, so badly in fact, that it was too tough to cut with a regular knife and the pizza cutter was M.I.A. We ended up half cutting, half tearing the pizza into shreds with a pair of kitchen shears while watching re-runs of Friends. To top it all off, her beloved cat, Zelie, growled and spanked my rear every time I walked past his perch on the chair.

I'm happy to say, the first thing I bought Stephanie and Bob when they purchased their new home was a new, sharp pizza cutter, and Zelie and I have become quite special friends in the years since.

Over the years, many more adventures followed. From road trips to cruise ships, shopping sprees and ice cream quests, bizarre movies (I'll never understand Vanilla Sky Stephanie), nights at the ballpark, countless radio contests and more concerts than my bank account cares to remember. Even the occasional run in with unexpected public nudity. Whatever Stephanie and I were doing, you could bet it was an adventure—for us at least. She has been a great friend to me in so many ways, and has always been there for me when things were tough. We've come to know one another so well, that we have an understanding that goes beyond words.

But when Stephanie decided to get back into the dating scene, it was an adventure I was not prepared to follow her on. She always kept me included though, and I could expect my daily phone call or emails filling me in on the crazy guy she met the night before or the funny email another prospect sent her that day. Among my favorites were Chicken Fingers Steve, who, true to his name, would only eat chicken fingers or, when pressed, hamburgers, and Warren the Swing Dancer whom I expect to see on "So You Think You Can Dance" any day now.

I knew Bob was different right away though, not because of what Stephanie told me about him, but because she didn't tell me about him at all. I had always got the low down on any other guy immediately; his age, where he lived, what he did for a living, things they talked about etc. But with Bob, I never knew he existed until after their first date, even though she had been talking to him for quite a while beforehand.

As she sat in my kitchen that day, telling me about their date the weekend before, her eyes had a little glow in them, and she had a funny little smile I had never seen before. When she paused 20 minutes after she began to finally take a breath, I quickly interjected that this guy seemed like a good one and she should keep him around! Frankly, since this was the first I had even heard of him, I was just impressed that he had floor seats to the Cavs! But I didn't tell her that at the time.

From then on, Stephanie and Bob were inseparable. It all felt right as it happened, it all feels right today, and I know that the life they have ahead of them will feel just as right in the future.

It can be hard to share your best friend with someone else, but I have been thrilled to share Stephanie with Bob. He has made her happier than I have ever seen her. All in all, I can see you both making a success of everything you do together, especially in your marriage. I know you have a wonderful foundation: not just lovers, but lifelong friends as well. The love you show each other is inspiring and beautiful and I look forward to seeing it continue to grow.

Stephanie, I want to say thank you for being my friend. You always make things entertaining and exciting. I am proud to be your friend. You're a giving person, you're always there if I need you, and I just love you to bits. Even though you made me give a speech today.

Separately, you are two special, remarkable people, but together you are complete. As you sit side by side through this roller coaster of life, remember to scream from the peaks, hold hands through the dips, laugh through the loop the loops, and enjoy every twist and turn.

For the ride is much better when you share it together. And it's a wonderful thing when two people who were made for each other manage to fall in love.

So I'd like to make a toast. And I'd like to make it with this thought in mind: If there is such a thing as a good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love. So this is to you, Stephanie and Bob, and a wonderful life together. Ladies and Gentlemen, to friends, lovers and soul mates.

Wedding and Honeymoon are over!

2007-10-22T20:30:00.000-05:00

Well, the wedding and honeymoon are over!

What wonderful memories!!!!

I posted some photos on my MySpace page (click here). When I get the professional photos from our AMAZING photographer, I will post those too.

I'm off to Toledo for a couple days for work... so, I will post more about the wedding honeymoon when I return.

I'm married. I still can't believe it!

Two Days!

2007-10-11T07:30:00.000-05:00

I can't believe it!

I know I keep saying it.

But, I simply can't believe that 9 months have passed since Bob and I got engaged New Year's Eve in Florida. It seems just like yesterday.

And now, it will be here on Saturday.

I still have much to do... but, I'm loving every minute of it. I'm thrilled and excited to be marrying Bob on Saturday...but, a part of me is sad because all the fun wedding planning will be over. But, we have a lot to look forward to... #1 being new furniture for the new house! Yeah!

I'm so excited about walking down the aisle and seeing Bob's face for the first time. It's going to be magical and wonderful and romantic.

If you haven't already... check out our wedding webiste, and leave a message in the guestbook!
http://www.mywedding.com/stephandbob/

I'm off to get my laundry list of "to-do" items completed. I'm sure there will be more updates before Saturday...

*Fingers crossed* for sunshiny skies!

One week...

2007-10-06T07:11:00.000-05:00

from today I'll be getting my hair and make-up done for the wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Single digits

2007-10-04T22:12:00.000-05:00

We're down to single digits until the wedding. I can't believe it............

**Fingers crossed** for a lovely day!

Lots going on!

2007-10-02T23:22:00.000-05:00

So, I'm back from Colorado... and I haven't posted about the trip.

And, the wedding is 10 days away... and I haven't posted about the last minute details.

And, work's SUPER busy... and I haven't posted anything about that either.

You would wonder what I've been doing. Right!?!?!?!

Well, Colorado was AMAZING!!! (Did you think it wouldn't be?!?!) I just LOVE it there!!! I took about 300 photos. (No kidding!!!) If you want to see them all, e-mail me and I'll send you the photo links. Here are a couple of my favorites...

Garden of the Gods

Mueller State Park (It will be my NEW married last name!!! And, you can see my CUTE Rav4 silver car rental in the background!!!)

Me at the top of Pikes Peak! (No, I didn't drive. I took the Cog Railway!!)

70 degrees on the ground... but, at an altitude of 14,000+ feet, it was 28 degrees with 30MPH winds!!! Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.......

So... Colorado was incredible, as you can see from the photos! It had been 7 years since my last visit. (WAY TOO LONG!!) I hope I don't have to wait 7 more. I thought it would be weird to spend two days alone... but, it actually was nice. No wedding planning, no work stuff... just me, my cute little Rav4 rental (which I fell in love with), and 200+ miles of driving!!! I just love Colorado! (In case you didn't know that already...)

And now... it's back to work, and back to wedding planning! I can't believe it's 10 days away. (I also can't believe it's almost 1am, and I'm still awake and functioning.)

Planning the wedding has been awesome!!! I've enjoyed every minute of it. And, I can't wait to walk down the aisle, and have Bob see me for the first time in my dress. It's going to be amazing!!! I'm so excited to be marrying him. I can't wait!!!

We're down to the minor details now. And, hopefully our jeweler arrives safely back from Europe next week with my ring. (Of course, I had to be difficult, and pick a ring that you can't find ANYWHERE in the US. Doh!) Our jeweler, Analise, is GREAT!! She went to Europe to pick-up my ring... and to see her family & friends. I will post pictures after the wedding. It's a perfect blend of what Bob wanted (simple and classic) and what I wanted (a little flash)!!

This year has gone by so quickly. I can hardly believe it! Part of me wants the wedding to get here, because we've been planning for so long... and part of me wants it to be awhile more so I can enjoy the planning and anticipation.

No matter what happens... it's going to be a perfectly incredible day!!! I can't wait!!!

But, now... it's bedtime! And, I'll dream of our special day as we celebrate with our wonderful family and friends. I'm so excited to be marrying Bob!!!

Colorado

2007-09-20T20:48:00.000-05:00

Well, it's been awhile since I've posted. There's so much going on that taking the time at the end of the night to write just hasn't been a priority.

But, I'm going to write tonight... because I leave for Colorado in 32 hours!!!! I'm so excited!!!!!!!!!

I thought by now I'd have my entire trip planned out... but, I really only have one thing locked in right now. I will be taking the 10:40am cog railway to the top of Pikes Peak on Sunday... and I can't wait!!!!! I've been to the top of Pikes Peak before by car. And, I was scared to be a passenger in a car going up those narrow, winding roads with HUGE drop-offs. There was NO WAY that I'd drive myself ALONE to the top on this trip. So, I'm letting someone else do the driving, so that I can sit back and enjoy.

Other than a trip to Garden of the Gods... and the usual gift shops for Colorado memorabilia... I don't really have an agenda. There are a couple restaurants that I'd like to eat at because I remember going there on past trips and they were yummy! One is the Omelette Parlor and the other is Giuseppe's Depot Restaurant.

I'm looking forward to a relaxing, roaming about aimlessly for two days "vacation". And, then it'll be on to non-stop, action packed True North training for JA from Monday night through Wednesday night.

I'm going to miss Bob... and I really wish he was coming to Colorado to see it with me because I love it so much (and I love him so much too)!!!

Wedding plans are going well... in case you're wondering! Things are really starting to come together. There are only a few odds and ends that need to be taken care of... but, I'm really excited about the wedding. It's going to be fabulous!!!

I'm off to bed now. It's been a long stressful day. But, I'll sleep well dreaming of the wedding... and of course, COLORADO!!!!

What a year!!!

2007-08-26T08:48:00.000-05:00

It's been quite some time since I've posted. I guess there's a lot going on to keep me busy.

Last night (and for most of the afternoon), I printed envelopes and stuffed wedding invitations. I have 40 more and they're ready to mail. Bob talked me into printing the addresses on the envelopes... and I think they look fabulous! He helped me with the project. It seems just like yesterday that Bob proposed and we were picking a date and reserving the church and finding a reception location.

And now... we're mailing invitations, and creating place card holders, and ordering wedding bands.

Last Sunday (August 19) was the bridal shower given by my Aunt Carol, and my mom! (mother-of-the-bride)

Here's a photo of my grandma (sitting), my Aunt Carol (on the left), my mom (in pink) and me (the giant)!!

Here's a photo of the AWESOME centerpieces!!! With Bob's and my love for boating and anything nautical, the shower theme was lighthouses.

And, of course, I can't forget my lovely girls!!!

Crystal, Me, Melissa and Michell!!!!!!!!!!!

It was a wonderful shower. And, I received many wonderful gifts!

And, today is my second shower given by my future mother-in-law, Pat, and her sister, Michele.

Here's a photo of Pat (mother-of-the-groom) and my mom (mother-of-the-bride)!

Colorado, a Wedding and Cancun!

2007-07-19T19:06:00.000-05:00

We're officially 86 days away from our wedding. Can you believe it??? I certainly can't!

There is so much going on. Work is AWESOME! Love it, love it, love it!! The house is coming along nicely. We'll post pictures when we have some furniture and decorations. Although, my parents came up last Sunday, and mom and I went to Pat Catan's and I got some flowers and baskets/vases to decorate. Yeah!! (For those of you who know me... I'm not crafty! But, I have to say these turned out fabulous! Thanks to my friend, Becky, for the inspiration. She has some great flower arrangements at her house.)

Here's some big news that I can't believe I haven't posted...

I'm going to Colorado!!!!! HOORAY!!!!!!!

I need to go there for training for 2.5 days... but, I've decided to fly in two days early and do some sightseeing, since I love, love, love Colorado!!! I'm going to spend some time in Garden of the Gods. And, I plan to take the Pikes Peak Cog Railway to the top of the mountain! (I need to find someone to take a photo of me at the top.) I also want to do a little shopping in Old Colorado City... and, of course, all the little gift shops. I need some Colorado gear! The conference is at the Cheyenne Mountain Resort. It looks AWESOME!! I can't wait!!!!!

I'm a little worried about being gone two weeks prior to the wedding... but, going to Colorado is going to relax me and it'll be just what I need to calm the pre-wedding stress!

Then, of course, we have the wedding on October 13!

And, then the Moon Palace in Cancun!!!

Much fun, and excitement awaits.

Less than 100 days...

2007-07-06T05:17:00.000-05:00

until Bob and I get married!!!!!!!

I can't believe it. Time is sure going by quickly!

We finally booked our honeymoon yesterday (Moon Palace in Cancun). Thanks to some friends of ours, we got a GREAT deal on a 7-night package at an all-inclusive, plus some GREAT extra perks (massages, pedicures, excursions, etc). We're very excited!!!!

The only drawback is that our flight leaves at 7am the morning after our wedding. Ugh!!!

And, I finally decided to go register. I spent almost two hours at Target last night. Bed, Bath & Beyond is up next week! Fun, fun!! (Bob decided not to go, and he's probably happy about that after I was there for so long. But, I did register for some fun stuff that he'll like... or, at least I thought I did. It was on the scanner when I left the store, but didn't show up online. I need to check on that.)

We're off to Kelley's Island for the weekend for some R&R!

Thanks!

2007-07-02T05:34:00.001-05:00

For those of you who are viewing this Blog... THANKS for playing along!

Everything's Changing!

2007-06-19T20:13:00.000-05:00

Well, it's been over a month since I've blogged.

And, sooooooooo much has changed.

We signed the papers to our new house on May 17, and immediately came over for pizza and wine (in plastic beer mugs --- from Michell --- from Mr. Ed's).

You gotta love the awesome table! :-)

I took Friday, May 18 off work in honor of my 30th birthday on the 19th, so we moved a bunch of stuff, including the bed by ourselves. That was CRAZINESS... especially when the truck died on Pearl Road. YIKES!!!

The 18th was the first night we spent in the new house.

On the day of my 30th birthday, we made the BIG move!!!

After an exhausting day, we got together with friends and family to celebrate my BIG 3-0!

(Here I am with my brother, Stephen; sister-in-law, Sarah; and niece, Sophia!)

As if buying a house, moving into the house and turning 30 wasn't enough for me... (along with getting engaged and planning a wedding and getting married later this year)... I decided that I needed something else to throw into the mix.

I got a new job!!!

Yes, I left the Indians... after 6.5 years!

Yes, I did.

Don't ask... just accept it!

I started my new job today with Junior Achievement. (www.jacleveland.org) I'm extremely excited about the new opportunity and the new challenges it will present. I still have a commute downtown Cleveland (ugh!), but I know I'm going to love it!

And, I'll be a happier person because of it!

So, I think that's it... as far as news! There really isn't anything else left to say after all that. I will post some pictures soon of the house. We haven't really done much to it yet... we really haven't had time.

But, life is good.

Life is very good! :-)

Engagment Photos... and other news!

2007-05-16T21:45:00.000-05:00

Bob and I took our engagement photos on Tuesday night. It was the first time that we've worked with our photographer, Rich Pappas. We thought he was AWESOME and can't wait for him to photograph our wedding day.

Following the photograph session, Bob and I went to Mongolian BBQ in Coventry. (YUM!!) We had one of our first dates there in February 2004, and haven't been back since. We had a great evening! And, by the time we got home, our photos were waiting for us online. FAST!!!

Here are a couple of our favorite photos....

AND..... more exciting news.... we signed the papers for our new house tonight!! :-) Hopefully we'll get the keys tomorrow.

Stay tuned... :-)

One week from today... 3-0!

2007-05-12T18:23:00.000-05:00

I can't believe that one week from today (May 19) I'll be turning 30! I'll be celebrating in style with my friends Saturday night for dinner, followed by "adult beverages" and cake at our new place!

Yes, I did say NEW PLACE!

In less than one week, we'll be home owners, again... (Technically since we both owned condos, we've been home owners before, but this will be the first time that we've owned anything together.)

So many things going on right now!

Wedding plans are falling into place too. (Yeah!) And, our wedding website is complete (www.mywedding.com/stephandbob) Check it out when you have time! (Don't forget to sign the guestbook.)

I promise lots of updates over the next few weeks... with details about the house and my birthday and whatever else might come up!

Packing Day

2007-05-06T21:22:00.000-05:00

Moving stinks.

Well, actually... it's the packing and unpacking that stinks.

The moving to new surroundings is actually very exciting!

Today, we packed. Or, I should say... my mom packed! She's the best. :-) We now have 20+ boxes in our dining room.

Very exciting..........

Stay tuned...

2007-05-02T22:13:00.000-05:00

The BIG signing day coming soon....

VERY EXCITING!!!

House Hunting

2007-04-27T06:54:00.003-05:00

Details to come....

Snow, snow and more snow! What month is this!??!?!

2007-04-08T18:02:00.000-05:00

Today is Sunday, April 8... Easter Sunday.

But, it looks more like Christmas morning. It's been snowing since the wee hours of Thursday a.m., and hasn't stopped.

The Cleveland Indians Opening Day was Friday. They made a great attempt to play... got 4 innings in and then had to postpone the game. A doubleheader was scheduled for Saturday, and was postponed until Sunday... and then Sunday was postponed until Monday.

Total craziness!!!!!!!

In Strongsville, we have at least 6+ inches on the ground. There are some areas, like Medina, that are only 10-15 minutes away that have no snow. My parents in the Youngstown area have no snow either.

What bizarre weather we've been having this year! Last Tuesday and Wednesday, the temps were in the 70s. Beautiful, beautiful weather! I wore flip flops to dinner Wednesday night.

And, now... we're back to winter coats, gloves, hats and snow shovels!

So much for the groundhog not seeing his shadow this year!!

Maybe with the extended winter, it'll mean an extended summer, and October will be warm??? That would be wonderful!

And speaking of October... no news with the wedding plans. I'm down to some of the smaller items -- DJ, flowers, cake. We're working on the save-the-date cards too. Hopefully those will get done soon! Work's been super busy with our first fundraising event coming up on Tuesday. When that's over, I should have a little more free time for a few weeks.

We spent Easter Sunday with Bob's parents, and some of his family. His brother, Keith, and his girlfriend, Kristen, made a surprise visit from D.C. It was an enjoyable afternoon.

43 Things...

2007-03-29T21:46:00.000-05:00

You might notice a new addition to my blog along the right side (besides the Countdown to My Wedding).

It's a list called "43 Things". I know I don't have 43 things on my list, yet. But, I'm working on it. And, as soon as I start completing the items, I will post a list of everything I've done.

Lately I've been working on professional development things for myself... and since I'm working on the professional side, I figured the personal side could use some working too... thus my "43 Things" comes into play.

To start your own list to go www.43things.com

Enjoy! :-)

My kitty's favorite beverage

2007-03-24T07:28:00.000-05:00

Need I say more?!?!?!?

Life's Milestones

2007-03-21T20:16:00.000-05:00

It's been awhile since I've posted, and there are a few things I'd like to share.

#1. My car is paid off!

It's the first time in my life that I've completely paid for something myself. It seems just like yesterday that I bought my 2002 red Pontiac Sunfire (with sunroof --- which I love, love, love...), and I can remember exactly what I did on my first outing with my new car. I received the title in the mail and it felt awesome! Now, I'm going to save the monthly car payment, and use it for a down payment on a new car in another year or so.

#2. I'll be turning 30 in less than 60 days...

I'm not so much worried about turning 30, as I am worried about where/how I'm going to spend my 30th birthday. I originally had Bob talked into a 4-5 day Walt Disney vacation. However, with the wedding this year, I decided that I'd rather use the vacation time for wedding-related stuff... or post-wedding relaxation. So, no Disney.

I desperately would love to spend the 3-day weekend in Colorado. (For those of you who know me... I need not say anything else.) But, Colorado is a bit far to travel for a 3-day weekend. Plus, we need to be back early on Sunday (see my #3 for that reason).

So.......... I'm trying to decide where to spend my 3-day birthday weekend. I've considered renting a secluded cabin in Hocking Hills with a jacuzzi tub; staying at a B&B in Letchworth in up-state New York; hitting the wineries in Niagara-on-the-lake and staying in a B&B; doing some early Christmas shopping at Bronner's (World's Largest Christmas store) and eating THE BEST chicken dinner EVER for my b-day dinner in Frankenmuth, Michigan........ but, I just haven't figured out "the perfect place".

I'm already spending the 3-day weekend with "the perfect guy" --- Bob..... so I guess it doesn't really matter where we go.

(I'm open to suggestions if anyone has any....)

Ok... #3.... I've saved the best for last...

For those that know me, this is going to be something total unlike me... but, I'm trying to live life to the fullest. :-)

I signed up for Scuba Diving Lessons!.............................................

SERIOUSLY!!! I honestly did! Bob received his scuba diving certification during high school, and has gone diving in the Caribbean, as well as Lake Erie. As we are searching for a honeymoon destination, he suggested going somewhere that has good scuba diving. Knowing that the one-hour quickie course they'd give me prior to scuba diving on our honeymoon wouldn't cut it for me, he suggested that I get certified here. The advantage to that is that with certification we can dive in Lake Erie during the summer.

So, we went last night to the local Dive Shop (yes, there is one in Strongsville --- who would have knew), and I put my deposit down for the class.

Crazy, huh????

I have to attend four classes (two hours each) and spend two Sundays (five hours each day) at the pool at the rec center. Then, this summer, I'll complete my two-days of open water dives in some quarries in Toledo.

I'm excited! This is totally unexplored territory for me (no pun intended). I'm going to totally surprise myself with this.

So, my first pool dive at the rec center is the day after my birthday at 3pm, so that's why we can't travel too far for my 3-day 30th b-day weekend!

That's all the news I have for now.

Aunt Stephanie

2007-03-04T20:12:00.000-05:00

Here's the most recent photo of my niece, Sophia, and I!

I bought her the Winnie the Pooh sweater that she's wearing long before she was born. I thought it was fairly gender neutral... so, whether S&S had a boy or girl, the baby could wear the sweater. This is the first time I've seen it on her and she looks so cute!!!!!

Mom, dad, and grandma came to visit today. Mom, Sarah and I went wedding-stuff shopping ---- of course!!! We hit Pat Catan's, and picked out lots of great things for the wedding --- the most important being centerpieces! :-) Then we went to the mall. Mom wanted to look at dresses for the wedding. Would you believe she found one!??!?!?! It was the first one she tried on... although, she only tried two on today. It looks great on her!!! Now, she just has to find shoes.

The bridesmaid dress shopping last weekend went VERY well!! Everyone has dresses. YEAH!! :-) They're "cranberry" --- a deeper red. I love them, and I think all the girls love them too... which is very important to me!

We're getting more wedding stuff accomplished too. I think we've narrowed down the limo options. And, we're hoping to have a videographer and DJ/Band in the next week.

There's still lots to do, but slowly we'll get everything done! :-)

Girls just wanna have fun!!

2007-02-24T07:45:00.000-05:00

First of all... I want to post this absolutely adorable photo of my niece, Sophia!

She's sitting in daddy's chair all by herself! :-) She'll be 5 months old on March 8. I can't believe how big she's getting!

Second...... I haven't posted about the wedding recently, so I figured that it's about time I said something. Today I'm traveling to Y-Town with my fabulous bridesmaids to go dress shopping for them! I finally have everyone in place.... so I can finally post about them!

First of all... my wonderful sister-in-law, Sarah, is my Matron of Honor!

My niece, Sophia, will be involved somehow... we're just not sure how yet! :-)

Next, my two friends Crystal and Melissa will be sharing in my special day.

(Melissa looks different now because she chopped off all her hair and has a really cute short hair cut! And, Crystal is expecting her second child in April.)

And finally... last, but definitely not least... my good friend Michell...... who I realized the other day that I've known for over 6 years!! WOW!!!!!!!!

All the ladies are special to me for various reasons... which is why I asked them to be part of my special day.

It should be a fun day of dress shopping. I'm going to try on my wedding dress too, while I'm there so that everyone can see it. :-) I'm excited!!!!

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow...

2007-02-18T09:24:00.000-05:00

Here are some photos from the Valentine's Day snowfall.

We woke up this morning & the white stuff is flying again. Oh joy...........

Today I'm off to a Bridal Show with my mom and future mother-in-law. It should be a fun day!

2007-02-14T15:16:00.000-05:00

This has certainly been an interesting Valentine's Day. It started Monday night with snow.... and it continued to snow all-day Tuesday and got progressively worse on Tuesday. Our office closed at 3pm yesterday, and I left at 4:15pm. It took me over two-hours to get home. Normally the commute is 25-30 minutes, depending upon traffic. It was UGLY!!!! I would say we have at least a foot... if not more, outside. Our office was closed today -- thank goodness!!!! I don't know that I could have lasted another two-hour commute today. (It took me over an hour to get there yesterday morning.)

So, I've been home today -- checking work e-mail and doing some work stuff -- and of course, researching wedding stuff! :-) (Did you expect anything different from me?!?!? LOL!!)

Bob and I will probably venture out for dinner tonight... but, we'll stay closer to home Hopefully the restaurants won't be too crowded.

I hope you have a wonderful Valentine's Day!!!!!!

Growing up and keeping up

2007-02-07T20:31:00.000-05:00

I'll warn you now... this post won't be about the wedding. Shocker, I know. (There's nothing new and exciting to report anyway.)

There never seems to be enough time in the day to accomplish everything... whether it's getting tasks done at work, or catching up with a friend by e-mail/phone/in-person, or finding some alone time to regroup your thoughts, or spending quality time with your loved ones at home. There always seems to be things going on and things you need to do... and sometimes life seems to be going a hundred miles an hour around you, and you feel like you're standing still, or you're even moving in the opposite direction that everything and everyone else is moving. Sometimes I feel like life is passing me by, and I'm not getting the most out of it.

I've been feeling like this a lot lately... probably for the past year. As I get older (and I'm not going to say I'm old... but, I'm getting older --- as I'll turn the big 3-0 this year), life seems to be going faster and faster, and there are more and more things pulling me in a thousand different directions.

I want to do so many things all at once (hang out with my friends, travel, go to concerts, volunteer, read a book, see a movie, call a friend I haven't talked to in awhile, spend the weekend on the boat, send e-mail, visit with family, play with my little niece, sit on the couch with my kitty, bond with my fiance, clean the house, pay bills, organize the closests, clean my office, laundry ----- granted, I want to do some of these things more than others)....... but, I just can't do everything at once, or be everything to everyone at the same time and at all times.

And, I can't make everyone understand or accept the way I choose to live my life.

But, it is comforting to know that I'm not the only one that feels like this.

One of my closest friends has said to me a few times that you have to live your life the way you want to, doing what you want, doing what's best for you and your loved ones, and if someone doesn't understand your choices, you don't need to justify your actions to anyone except yourself. You need to make yourself happy, first and foremost.

I trust her dearly, and value her opinions.

I worry that I don't see or talk to my friends as much as I used to. I worry that my friendships aren't as good as they used to be, or that my friends simply won't understand everything that I have going on, and my reasons for long periods of "silence". I worry that I don't spend enough time with my family, or call them as much as I should. After spending 40+ hours a week at work, sometimes the only thing I want to do is come home, and sit in front of the TV without going out or socializing or calling people.

With each passing month, and year... I have new roles and new responsibilities, and I need to adjust my lifestyle to handle these things. As you get older, you don't have all the free time that you once had to do things. You can't spend every minute with your friends, or spend every night out on the town. You have responsibilities and people who depend on you. People change, life changes... and, it's totally OK!

It doesn't mean that you don't like your friends anymore, or that you don't want to spend time with them. It's just different, because life is different.

I love my life!!

Don't misunderstand me.

I couldn't be happier with my fiance! (I'm still getting used to saying that!) He's absolutely wonderful, and I can't wait for our wedding later this year, and to spend the rest of our lives together. He makes me very happy... and that's the most important thing!!

I also have a great group of friends... who understand the demands and craziness of life, and they know that it's ok if we don't talk or see each other for a few days, or a week, or even longer. While we can't always be there in person, we're there in spirit. Our friendships have evolved through the years... through various jobs... through marriages... and babies... and all sorts of other challenges that life gives us.

I need to learn to accept the fact that it's ok if life is crazy and busy moving all around me. I will make the choices that I want to, the choices that make me happy.

And, in conclusion (yes, there is an end and hopefully a point to my long rambling)........ life is what you make of it! You need to live life the way you want to, the way that makes you happiest. And, the people that care about you, will be happy for you, and will support you!

Find these people... and surround yourself with them! :-)

Cold, cold, cold

2007-02-04T23:12:00.000-05:00

You gotta love Ohio!! (Or, at least those of us who live here do!)

The wind chill is supposed to reach -15 degrees tonight! (YES, that IS a negative sign in front of 15!) Just about every school in Northeast Ohio is closed tomorrow. I'm sure work will be open... we can't be so lucky! :-)

Nothing new to report on the wedding. Bob and I are meeting a videographer Monday night. I have a couple florists that I'd like to schedule appointments with soon. I haven't decided on a theme or colors yet... but, I spent the majority of today going through the stacks of magazines and brochures that I've collected over the past month.

I can't believe it's only been a month since I got engaged. I've gotten so much done for the wedding in such a short time. Whoever said it takes at least a year to plan a wedding wasn't being truthful! (Although, I shouldn't open my mouth yet... I still have far to go!)

Bob and I picked up my ring on Saturday. He took it in on Thursday to be resized. I LOVE it even more now that it fits properly!!! I don't even think about it anymore. We looked at wedding bands too while we were at the jewelers. He found one that he likes. I found one too... but, I think we're both going to keep looking. Although, I searched the internet on Saturday and couldn't find anything like the one I found. It's a plain band, very similar to the band of my engagement ring. But, on the insides of the band there were small diamonds around the entire ring. It looked great with my ring. So, I might end up back at the jeweler to buy it! :-)

Off to bed now. Hopefully by some chance, the office will be closed tomorrow! :-) Doubtful...... but, a girl can dream! :-)

We have a date, church, dress, reception location, and photographer...

2007-01-28T21:09:00.000-05:00

So, here's what we have....

- Wedding Dress (actually I have that)
- Church (St. Mary's in Berea)
- Reception Location (Michaud's in Strongsville)
- Date (October 13, 2007 - that's most important, so I should've started with that!)
- Photographer (Rich Pappas from Dreamcatcher Studios -- newly signed today!)

I would say that list is pretty good considering we haven't been engaged a month yet! :-) Now, I'm moving on to Videography, DJs, and Limo service. Fun, fun! I'm still enjoying the planning, and I haven't gotten stressed yet. There's still a lot to do... but, I'm having fun!

I'm not so sure how much fun Bob is having. But, he's been great so far! He was super sweet to drive out to The Bertram Inn in Aurora with me today to meet our photographer at a Bridal Show. We signed the contract and then wandered through the vendors. We picked up some good leads on a few vendors... so the trip was beneficial. Plus, we signed with a great photographer! We both really like him, and we're excited about our wedding photos.

Stay tuned for more details...... AND, we're going to start working on a wedding website. :-)

I bought a dress!

2007-01-16T22:21:00.004-05:00

Well, my wedding dress shopping trip with my mom on Monday was a success. I bought a wedding dress!!! Can you believe it??? My first day of dress shopping and I find THE DRESS!

Unfortunately, I can't tell you about it, or post a photo. (My fiance, Bob, reads my blog and my dress is a SECRET from him!!!)

So, you're just going to have to wait until October for wedding photos to see it! (Unless you e-mail me, and I'm nice enough to send you a picture.)

I will say that it's absolutely stunning! :-) I love it, love it, love it!!!! :-)

So, now.... we need to meet with the priest Friday night to confirm a date and then book a reception location. We have a few places in mind, and we're going to visit one on Saturday. So, hopefully within the next week or two, we'll have a location set. Then, it'll be on to photographers, videographers and DJs/Bands.

Fun, fun!!!

I'm getting excited!!!!! Can you tell?!?!?!?!?!

So, I have the ring... and the guy...

2007-01-13T23:09:00.000-05:00

Wow! I'm completely exhausted!!!!! As an event planner by day, one would think that planning my wedding would be a piece of cake! (no pun intended)

Well, it's not!! The VOLUMES of information available through the internet and through books is UNBELIEVABLY EXHAUSTING!!!!!!!!!

And, I'm going to let you know right now (for those of you that read this blog) that the majority of the postings over the next few months are more than likely going to be totally focused on the wedding. So, get used to it... or get over it and stop reading! :-) (Hahaha!!)

Bob and I have a meeting with the priest next Friday night. Hopefully, we'll be able to set a date at that time. Since we don't have a date yet, it's incredibly difficult to begin the planning ---- although, I've been doing a ton of research online and I bought a book tonight at Borders which I think is going to be helpful... hopefully.

I'm incredibly excited about getting married!! (Bob will say that I'm more excited about planning the wedding, than the actual part about marrying him... which is NOT true!) I'm totally excited about EVERYTHING!!!!!

I just need to take things one day at a time........ and not stress out and above all not cause Bob to stress out and wish we had just decided to elope in Vegas! LOL!! :-)

Well, I'm off to bed now. Tomorrow, mom, Sarah and I are headed to the IX Center for my first Bridal Show. I can't wait!!!!! I'm sure it'll be very overwhelming, but fun. And, on Monday, mom and I are going dress shopping. That's what I'm most excited about!!! :-)

More details to come.............

Back at home... back to reality...

2007-01-09T22:24:00.000-05:00

Bob and I arrived home safely late Saturday night. It was an awesome trip, and we wish it could've gone on forever.

But, back to reality.... and back to share our engagement news with everyone!!!

Bob and I celebrated our engagement with dinner New Year's Day night at PF Chang's in Florida! (YUMMY!!! Brown rice!!!! Love it, love it, love it!!!)

Here's a photo of us from that night...

On Sunday, Bob's parents hosted an "Engagement Party" for us! Pat cooked a wonderful dinner and baked an awesome pink, heart-shaped cake for us. My parents, grandma, brother, sister-in-law and niece were all there to share in our good news! :-) We received two gifts --- a Precious Moment to commemorate our engagement from my parents (when I was younger I used to collect them and have almost 200) and a beautiful knife and cake server set from his parents.

It was a great night with all our family. His parents actually delayed their trip to Florida in order to celebrate with us! We felt honored.

I'm in full wedding planning mode! We haven't picked a date yet... but, we're looking at this October. I need to confirm a church date and then a reception location and I'll be on my way. The stack of bridal magazines is piling up on the living room floor. (Zelie, my cat, is enjoying laying on them.)

My mom and sister-in-law, Sarah, are going to a Bridal Show with me this Sunday. I'm looking forward to it! And, on Monday since I have the day off, I'm going to my parents to go wedding dress shopping with my mom and grandma. I can't wait!!!!

This is a very exciting time!!!! I can't wait to marry Bob. Every time I look at my ring I think of how much he loves me. :-)

We're Engaged!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-01T18:16:00.000-05:00

Bob asked me to marry him last night!!!!

And............ I said YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We're currently vacationing in Florida at his parents' condo. We decided to spend a quiet New Year's Eve at the condo, instead of going out and fighting all the crowds. We took a VERY yummy steak dinner with brown rice and baked potatoes. We had brownies with vanilla ice cream for dessert.

We both managed to stay up until midnight to watch Dick Clark ring in the New Year. At midnight, Bob's mom called to wish us a Happy New Year, and I called my mom. Shortly after I got off the phone with my mom, Bob started acting kind of strange. I asked if he was ok and he said yes. I didn't think much of it because we'd been drinking all night and were both kind of loopy. And, then.... Bob reached into his pocket and pulled out a beautiful shiny box! And said, "Do you know what this is????" I started yelling, "Are you serious????" We both didn't say anything for a minute and then I started yelling again.

I said, "Well, are you going to ask?"

And, Bob said, "Will you marry me?"

I said, "YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Here's my beautiful ring.................

Bob didn't tell anyone about the ring. He kept it a secret for weeks!!! And, after I accepted and yelled some more.... I asked if I could call my parents. At first, he wanted to wait until the morning, to keep it a secret between us.... but, because I was bouncing off the walls, he said that I could call my parents and then call his parents.

So, I called my mom. And, for those of you that know my mom, she was BEYOND ECSTATIC!!!!! She woke-up my 92-year-old grandma to tell her too. My dad was excited too! I told my mom I'd send photos of the ring... and my dad made her wait up until after 2am checking e-mail to see if I had sent the photos. Then, we called Bob's parents and they were excited too! They couldn't believe he kept it a secret from everyone ----- I can't believe it either!!!!!!!! They're coming to Florida right around the time that we're leaving. Hopefully they make it before we leave so that I can show them my ring!!

Today, Bob and I hung out at the condo. I called lots of friends this morning. He laughed at me. Then, we went for lunch and to play mini-golf. I keep looking at my beautiful ring and Bob keeps asking to see it!

I LOVE the ring!!!! And, I love him even more!!! :-) He's the bestest thing to ever happen to me. He makes me a better person! And, I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him!!!!!!

Tonight, we're going to celebrate with dinner at PF Chang's!!!

Love,
Stephanie (aka Bride-to-Be and Fiancee)

2006-12-31T22:24:00.000-05:00

2006-12-25T08:16:00.000-05:00

Amazon update

2006-12-24T14:29:00.000-05:00

The package finally arrived yesterday in the middle of the driveway. So, there will be gifts under the tree tomorrow for my loved ones! :-)

Christmas Craziness

2006-12-22T17:30:00.000-05:00

The Christmas shopping craze is in full swing! It took me forever to get home from work today. And, I even left at 3:30pm! Apparently everyone else had the day off!

It's 3 days before Christmas... and a HUGE portion of my Christmas presents have NOT arrived from Amazon. I placed the order on December 13 for 7 items. One of the 7 items shipped the same day by UPS and arrived the following day. The other 6 items shipped on Dec. 15 by the US Postal Service and haven't arrived. Amazon said the estimated arrival date was today. I just sent my second inquiry e-mail to Amazon. Grrrrrrrr........

Why do people wait until the last minute (myself included)??? It's like the holiday "sneaks" up on us.

Now we're off to do some final shopping. I guess we're no better than everyone else. LOL!

Annual Family Christmas Party

2006-12-16T11:16:00.000-05:00

Meet my family!

Last weekend was the annual Christmas party on my mom's side. My entire family was there (except for my cousin Traci's husband, Mike)... my 4 cousins, and they have a total of 5 kids. Plus, my 2-month old niece, my two aunts, my brother and sister-in-law, my parents, my 92-year old grandma and my wonderful boyfriend! (I hope I remembered everyone!) So, we decided to take a photo!

Here's a photo of me with my niece, Sophia! Isn't she cute?!?!?!?

Today, Bob's out shopping for my Christmas present and I'm home cleaning up. Then, it's off to lunch and then to Petsmart for Zelie's annual trip to see Santa. Yes, I'm strange... but, I've had his photo taken with Santa every year since I've had him (which is 7 years... can you believe it!??!?!), so why stop now!???!

I'll post photos soon.

Sophia meets Santa!

2006-12-08T22:41:00.000-05:00

I couldn't resist sharing this photo of my niece, Sophia, meeting Santa for the first time... and dressed as Santa.

Isn't she the most adorable baby!?!??!?! :-)

Blog Problem

2006-11-25T11:33:00.000-05:00

Well, I posted yesterday and when I logged in today, my post wasn't there. So, I reposted it because it was showing as a saved draft. Now it looks like I posted the day before Thanksgiving instead of the day after. Strange.........

IF you were able to read my Thanksgiving Blog yesterday and posted a comment... you'll need to post again.

Technology is crazy sometimes....

Enjoy the day! :-)

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!

2006-11-22T09:30:00.000-05:00

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!

I want to wish all my family and friends a very Happy Thanksgiving... one day late! :-) Bob and I cooked Turkey Day dinner for our families yesterday. And, it turned out wonderful!!! Bob decided that he wanted to try deep frying a turkey, so he bought a fryer. I wasn't sure how it would turn out, so I made a traditional turkey. Both were quite yummy!!!

For those of you who know me, cooking isn't my specialty! So, cooking Turkey Day dinner was quite the experience. I've done it once before, so it wasn't completely foreign. I was inspired and watched the Food Network for about 6 hours a couple weeks ago. And, I got some YUMMY recipes from Rachel Ray!

Here was the menu:
- Sangria Cranberry Sauce (I surprised myself with how well it turned out!)
- Bourbon Pecan Mashed Sweet Potatoes (YUMMY!! -- nothing like adding alcohol to food)
- Harvest Muffin Stuffin' (with Pumpkin Muffins, zucchini and apples)
- Orange Cranberry Stuffing (with orange cranberry muffins)
- Mashed Potatoes
- Chestnuts

I think I'm addicted now. Maybe I'll ask Santa for one of Rachel Ray's 30-minute meals cookbooks. :-)

It was wonderful to spend Thanksgiving with my parents, my grandma, my brother and sister-in-law and new niece, Bob's parents... and of course, my wonderful boyfriend, Bob! :-) This has been quite a busy and interesting year.... and it's not over yet.

AND.... since I haven't posted in awhile... and a lot has been going on, I'll catch you up.

First of all... my niece and goddaughter, Sophia Rose, was baptized last Sunday.

Here's a picture of my family --- my parents - the proud grandparents; my brother, Stephen; my sister-in-law, Sarah; and my wonderful boyfriend, Bob. It was a great day! Sophia slept through the whole day. She's such a cutie!

Second, I FINALLY made up my mind and purchased a laptop!!! I got a Toshiba Satellite M115-S3094. I LOVE IT!!!!!!!

It's been so great to sit on the couch and surf the internet. I don't know what I ever did without a laptop. I still need to buy some hardware so that I can connect my old hard drive to the new laptop. I've been without my iTunes for quite awhile. And, I need to get access to my photos so that I can start my annual calendar gift projects.

And in other news......

I received a promotion at work... FINALLY!!!! I've now been promoted to MANAGER. I don't really have any new responsibilities. I've been doing the job of my boss since she left last July as well as my own job. But, now I have a better title and a little extra pay.

Vacation Plans

Bob and I finally decided to head south for Christmas break. We'll be taking a much needed (and deserved) two-week hiatus to the warm, sunny climate of Florida. I've enjoyed the trip so much the past two years. This year, we'll have some extra days to get in some boating, visiting with my cousin Traci and her husband, as well as some new sightseeing. And, MAYBE even a visit to see THE MOUSE himself at Walt Disney World!! :-)

Buy now or forever hold your peace!

2006-10-30T21:28:00.000-05:00

So, I wrote last week about the death of my computer.

Well, I still haven't replaced it. Mostly because I can't make up my mind. I finally decided that I wanted a laptop instead of a desktop. But, that's where the decision-making ended!!!

I never knew there were soooooooooooooooooooooo many laptop options.

14" screen
15.4" screen
512 vs 1 GB RAM
40GB, 60GB, 80GB, 1GB hard drive
Core Duo vs. Celeron M

UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I finally had it narrowed down to two computers on Saturday. And, then I made my decision. I started to complete the online checkout process and the internet connection failed, as it's been doing quite frequently for the past few days. So, I left it and went to the post office. Well, when I came back to it later, the laptops that were on sale were SOLD OUT!!! UGH!!!

So, I've spent the past hour researching the internet and I've narrowed down my choices. I'm waiting for Bob to return to ask his opinion. (He's been a trooper through all of this! I'm sure I'm a frustrating person to deal with because of my inability to make a decision. LOL!)

I hope the next time I write that I'm the proud owner of a new laptop! :-)

Computer Problem!

2006-10-24T21:14:00.000-05:00

So, my computer died.

The hard drive is ok. But, it will no longer turn on.

Ugh!

I've been shopping for a new computer for the past two days.

I'm quite confused.

Do I get another desktop or a laptop?

I'm leaning towards a laptop... but there are too many choices!!!!!! Although, I found a really nice one at Compusa tonight.

But, we'll see.............. stay tuned!!!

No new photos of my niece, Sophia, due to my technology difficulties. She's such a cutie!! And, I have some really cute photos to share.

Hopefully, I'll be able to get my computer up and running soon. And if not, hopefully I'll make a decision soon. (Although, those of you who know me... know that I don't make decisions very easily! But, I need to figure something out soon or Bob's going to go crazy because I'm using his computer.)

Back to my computer search........ :-)

I'm an AUNT!!!!!

2006-10-08T19:17:00.000-05:00

Meet Sophia Rose... born Sunday, October 8, 2006 @ 9:59am. She weighed in at 8lbs 4oz and 19 inches long.

What an exciting day!!!!

I received a call from my brother at 5:30am that Sarah was at the hospital. I told him that I really wanted to be at the hospital when Sarah delivered. They decided not to find out the sex of the baby... and I thought it would be extra exciting for him to come out into the waiting room and announce... "It's a....!!"

So, I arrived at the hospital around 6:30am. Stephen kept coming out to the waiting room to give me updates. I was so proud of him! He was calm... which I thought he'd be freaking out. My parents weren't sure that they were going to make it up in time to be there when he came out to tell us Sarah had the baby.

The majority of the family thought they were having a boy.

Obviously... we were wrong!

My parents arrived shortly after 10am... and Stephen came out after 11am and said...

IT'S A GIRL!!!!!

We were all surprised!!! I'm so happy that my parents were there for the big announcement. It's their first grandchild and they're so excited. We were able to go back and see Sarah and the baby for a few moments.

Then... we left the hospital and did what any new grandma would do... we went SHOPPING!! Since they waited to find out the sex of the baby, all the colors that we bought were "neutral" colors. My mom said, "It's a girl and she has to have PINK!"

So, we went and bought some very cute pink outfits.

We went back to the hospital around dinnertime and brought my grandma with us since she wasn't there in the morning.

Sophia Rose was in the room with S&S.

Funny... now it's S&S&S... or S3??? :-)

We spent about an hour with them and took some more photos. (Mom said the photos we took in the morning weren't very good since you couldn't see the baby's face. STAY TUNED FOR A SOPHIA ROSE WEBSITE.......)

It's an exhausting day... but an incredibly exciting one! :-) I'm so happy that mom and baby are doing well.

And....... Stephen and Sarah asked me to be the godmother!! :-) I'm excited about that too!!!!!!!

I'm sure you'll be seeing a lot of photos of Sophia Rose in the coming weeks, months and years. :-)

Still no baby....

2006-10-06T19:33:00.000-05:00

Just got back from dinner with Stephen & Sarah (and my unborn niece or nephew).

Poor Sarah! Her official due date is Monday, October 9... but, the doctor has been telling her for the past two weeks that it'll be "any day now".

Well... she's READY!!

BUT... the baby isn't!!!

Although... according to my 92-year-old grandma, the baby will come at 11pm tonight! I guess there's some old wives tale that says the baby will come after the 9th full moon. Well, tonight's the 9th full moon!

So... we'll see what happens! :-)

It was a nice night. S&S and I went to the Macaroni Grill (yummy!!!) and then wandered around the mall. (Another old wives tale is that if you walk a lot it'll help the baby to come out. I'm not so sure about these tales...)

NEW Sarah McLachlan CD!!

2006-09-21T20:19:00.000-05:00

I am soooooooooooooo excited!!!!!!!!!!

I just happened to visit Sarah McLachlan's website tonight while I was updating my iPod and....... I discovered that she has a NEW single which came out TODAY!

AND... even better... she also has a Christmas CD coming out in October called Wintersong!!!!!

Sarah McLachlan is my ABSOLUTE FAVORITE artist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had the opportunity to see her in August 2004 @ the former Gund Arena from second row center. AMAZING!!! I've seen her 4 other times at Lilith Fair in 1997 - 1999... but, from the second row was definitely the best!

I cannot wait for the new CD. I'm going to find a place to pre-order it today! :-)

Back from Vacation... finally!

2006-09-04T20:34:00.000-05:00

Greetings from Ohio!! Bob and I finally made it back from our weeklong boat trip. We were supposed to arrive back in Sandusky on Friday... however, the waves in Lake Erie were REALLY big, and so it forced us to extend our trip by two days. We arrived safely back in Sandusky last night... and we arrived home in Strongsville today.

I promise to blog soon about the trip and post some of the 258 photos!

We had a GREAT time... and got to see A LOT of Michigan.

Unfortunately, I didn't take many "self-portraits" of Bob & I... but, here's one of his at Duffy's Marina/Motor Inn/Tavern in Amherstburg, Ontario! (Bob's drinking a Labatt's Crystal and using my yellow beer koozie)

Long lost blog...

2006-08-23T22:21:00.000-05:00

I haven't been very good at posting this summer. (except for changing my profile photo to one of my cute boyfriend, Bob, & I!)

I was completely and totally INSANE with work for the months of June and July with Party in the Park and the Golf Outing (whoever planned two ENORMOUS events slated to net half of the annual budget on back-to-back days should be FIRED.... ummmm.... LOL!).

BUT... my incredibly sweet and wonderful boyfriend bought me a new car stereo and surprised me with it when I returned home from the golf outing. He felt bad that I had been working 12+ hour days. It's a SWEET stereo! It makes my speakers sound sooooooooooooo much better. AND, the best part... my iPod connects directly and I can control the iPod with the stereo controls. MUCH FUN!!!

Anyway... both events were a success! The golf outing being the BIGGER success raising DOUBLE what we made last year. I was EXTREMELY proud since I saw the entire event through from budget creation to the final RAIN DROP fell that night!

Yes, I DID say RAIN! It poured. Actually, poured isn't the correct term!! It was a TROPICAL STORM in Lake County! Yes, right here in Northern Ohio. President Bush even visited the flood damaged area a few days after the golf outing.

LOL!! (I can laugh now... but, the day of the event... I wasn't laughing!)

So, after July was over... I moved on to the fun stuff! In the sales contest this year, I won a Party Suite. Here are some photos!

My brother, Stephen, and sister-in-law, Sarah, and baby-to-be! She's due October 9 and we're all excited about it! (above)

My bestest chicas -- Michell & Christine! (above)

My bestest friends from work -- Melissa & Crystal!! They keep me sane. And, they're also my walking buddies. We keep each other motivated to go out and exercise and enjoy the weather! (above)

The BEST part of the sales contest was winning a suite to treat my family and Bob's family. My 92-year-old grandma attended her FIRST EVER baseball game! It was AWESOME to share that experience with her and my mom!! :-)

So....... now it's back to the "daily grind" at work. I'm finally begining to feel like life is getting "back to normal" (whatever that might mean). We're in the middle of the review process and budgets will start in mid-September. Fun stuff! :-)

I was accepted into the YWCA Leadership Boot Camp program which I'm VERY EXCITED about attending! My first class is September 15. I think this is a great program and I'm going to meet many new and interesting people!

Next week Bob & I are off on a week-long boat trip. It actually starts this Friday at Kelley's Island for the weekend with the Berea Power Squadron. I'm the Cruise Director, so I have to be there! :-) Then, we'll leave EARLY Sunday morning and head to Lexington, Michigan for two nights. We went there two years ago on our first boat trip together. Looking forward to a Wimpie Burger @ Wimpie's! I can't find a website... but, I'll be sure to take photos and post them! :-) Then, we'll work our way back to Sandusky by next Friday in time for the Anchor Out overnight in Sandusky Bay on Saturday.

I'm REALLY looking forward to some much needed R&R and to a wonderful vacation with Bob! I'll definitely post all the photos for everyone to see. Hopefully he'll let me drive the boat and I can take more photos like the last time with my hands in a death-grip on the wheel. LOL!

It's late... I'm tired... and I need to get up in the morning for work.

Hopefully it won't be another 6 weeks before I post again. :-)

2006-07-04T18:50:00.000-05:00

Just got back from Bob's parents' annual 4th of July party. Much fun as usual! It's always nice to see familiar faces.

I took Zelie out for a spin when I got home. I'm heading to my parents this weekend, and would like to take him with me. He HATES car rides! He never used to be like this. But now, he foams at the mouth in the car. Quite disgusting!! So, I'm hoping if I take him for short rides this week, he might be ok for this weekend. (I'm not holding my breath though...)

Bob's off to Put-in-Bay tomorrow for the annual "boys' weekend"... which seems to have turned into a 5-day thing.... So, I'm flying solo for the next few days. But, I have plenty to keep me busy. Last night, Michell and I went to the Indians game. (We won!!!) And, we saw fireworks... they were AMAZING!! Probably some of THE BEST fireworks I've ever seen!! After the game, we hit Steak-n-Shake for shakes and french fries! LOL!

Tonight, I'm going to attempt to clean my desk. (It's gotten extremely ugly and out of hand!) I also might try to do some jewelry-making. (I got a lesson last weekend from an expert... and I'm hoping her tips will do the trick! Everything I make seems to fall apart.) Or, maybe I'll finish reading my book --- The Lake House by James Patterson. (Please do NOT confuse this with the Sandra Bullock/Keanu Reeves film The Lake House... it's NOT the same book!) I'm guessing that desk cleaning won't be happening tonight... but that's just a hunch! :-)

So... off I go to do something productive.

I hope everyone had a safe, wonderful, and Happy 4th of July!! Enjoy the fireworks!!!

New cellphone

2006-06-28T20:01:00.000-05:00

So, I went to Verizon tonight to check out new cellphones. I'm on a "New Every Two" cellphone plan and it's approaching the time to renew. I walk into the store, and see there's a huge line. I just want to look at phones, so I head over to the phones and the lady behind the counter yells out as she's helping a customer, "Can I help you?". I tell her I'm just checking out phones. She says great and goes back to her customer.

I begin to look at phones and "Mr. Smooth-talking Sales Rep" walks over to me and asks if he can help me. I explain my situation and he says, when I'm ready to get a phone I should get in line so that someone can help me. (I'm not sure why HE couldn't help me since he was just wandering around the store.)

So, I continue to look at phones and decide to get in line to make sure that I'm eligible for my $100 "New Every Two" discount. So, I get in line behind two people.

The lady who yelled at me from behind the counter when I first came in, goes to another counter and helps the first guy in line.

Another guy comes in the store and gets in line behind me. "Mr. Smooth-talking Sales Rep" decides to help the guy... not sure why he didn't start with the front of the line??? And, soon the lady in front of me is being helped by the "lady who yelled from behind the counter".

After waiting for an insanely long amount of time (I only waited because it had begun to rain cats & dogs outside and it was better than going outside and getting soaked)......... "Mr. Smooth-talking Sales Rep" decides NOW he can help me!!

So, we look up my account... he says I get my $100 "New Every Two" Discount and I proceed to tell him that I like my current phone, but just want to look at my options. He says my current phone is a great phone (which I already knew). So, we look at phones... and, nothing really jumps out at me. I'd really only be upgrading to get Bluetooth or an MP3 phone (which doesn't matter since I already have an iPod). So, he said that I didn't need to upgrade. I could carry my $100 credit and use it whenever a phone comes out that I like.

BUT... there was an improvement in my coverage plan, and it's a free upgrade with additional minutes and NO ROAMING anywhere. So, I decided to go with that.

He passed me off onto another service rep... who was extremely nice, Tom, and said that he recognized me from being in there before.

So.......... long story short....... I spent 30 minutes in Verizon and came out with 50 additional minutes per month and no roaming!

Was this not THE MOST BORING blog you have ever read!??!?!?!?!!??!?!?

Beautiful Teeth!

2006-06-14T20:48:00.000-05:00

(WOW! Two enteries in one week... haven't done this in awhile!!)

So, I went to the dentist today for my teeth grinding problem.

And, I must say that it wasn't as bad as I had imagined it would be.

For those of you who know me well, I do NOT do well with medical things (shots, blood, surgery, etc), so I, of course, was anticipating the worst today. I was thinking he'd get the big, scary needle to numb me up. But, when I arrived he said that he thought it would be less painful to grind down the teeth without putting me through the pain of the needle. I thought, "What are you smoking?? You're going to GRIND my teeth and this isn't going to hurt?!?!?!"

But, it really didn't... just some minor discomfort. Apparently my top teeth were hitting against my bottom teeth and were causing fractures (aka chips) to my teeth... making some of them jagged. One of my front teeth was even longer than the other. The shorter one was "abormally short" (as the dentist put it) because it's been wearing down for years. YIKES!!!

Anyway... so he did some grinding on the front top and bottom teeth and then he smoothed everything out. Then he sat me up and handed me a mirror... and WOW! My teeth are nice and smooth and straight on the top and bottom. It's really a noticeable difference... to me, at least. I wish I had taken before and after pictures! (LOL!! Only me would be wishing I had before and after photos...)

So, that was the excitement of my day!

It's been awhile...

2006-06-12T22:22:00.000-05:00

Well, it's been quite some time since I've blogged. Lots going on. As usual... work is keep me extremely busy and quite stressed. I visit my dentist last week, and found out that I grind my teeth --- mostly because of stress! I've chipped a couple teeth because of it, and one of them is even LOOSE!!! So, on Wednesday, I'm going to have my teeth smoothed down and fitted for a night guard. Fun, fun!

Hmmmm... what else is going on????

On a happier note... good news today. My cousin, Anthony, and his wife, Betsy, welcomed the newest addition to their family... a baby girl named Molly! Molly joins big-brother, Alexander, who is two-years-old!

I celebrated my birthday almost a month ago (May 19). I took the day off! :-) And, I went to Y-Town the night before to hang out with my parents and grandma. I spent most of my birthday with them and then headed back to Cleveland to go to the boat. Bob and I went to Outback Steakhouse for my birthday. Outback is catering our golf outing this year, so I wanted to give them some business as a thank you.

My family and Bob's parents came over on Sunday, May 21 to celebrate my birthday. Bob decorated the living room with balloons! :-) We also decorated Nix. LOL! :-)

I successfully directed my first cruise for the Berea Power Squadron. I was "talked into" being the Cruise Director for our group. We cruised to Vermilion the first weekend of June. Despite a rocky start and end with weather... everything else was great! We had 8 boats... with 18 members. A great time was had by all!

The next cruise that I'm responsible for is to Leamington, Ontario the final weekend of July... that would be the day after the golf outing and two days after Party in the Park. I'm going to NEED a vacation by then! I might not return from Leamington. LOL!!!

I can't really think of anything else that's been going on.

I've definitely been trying to spend more quality time with my friends and family. There just doesn't seem to be enough hours in the day anymore. I'm enjoying my weekends on the boat very much this summer. I've read 3 books in the past 4 weeks. :-) (Must read of the summer... James Patterson's "Sam's Letters to Jennifer"! LOVED IT!)

And speaking of the boat... how could I forget!?!?!? This past weekend was Bike Week in Sandusky. WOW!!! You should see the "characters" at the festival in downtown Sandusky on Saturday. Ladies with snakes, dogs big enough to ride, fire jugglers, teenage boys with babies, black clothes, leather pants, and tons and tons and tons of motorcycles!!

There was even a bride and groom walking through the crowd. She was barefoot. They were both carrying beers. And, she stopped to have her photo taken on a motorcycle. (I took photos of this strange sight! When I download them, I'll post them.)

Well... tis growing late and I'm tired, tired, tired. Another long tired day at work... and an extremely long commute home. It took almost 30-minutes to go about 5 miles. Ugh!!

Goodnight all. I hope to blog more often. :-)

S&S

2006-05-09T21:33:00.000-05:00

I realized tonight that I haven't posted the good news!!!

My brother, Stephen, and sister-in-law, Sarah, are expecting a baby in October!!

It's very exciting!!! It'll be the first "gran-baby" for my parents. My mom is beyond ecstatic! Sometimes I think she's happier than the two of them together! LOL!! :-)

So lately there's been a lot of talk about cribs, nurseries, changing tables, diapers and all things baby! It's been quite a change for my family.

I think the decision has been made to wait to find out if they're having a boy or a girl. They chose Classic Pooh for the nursery. I never realized just how much Pooh stuff is out there. WOW!!

I'm definitely excited for Stephen and Sarah (S&S, as Bob and I refer to them as). They're going to make wonderful parents!

Kellogg!!!!

2006-05-03T23:44:00.000-05:00

Bob and I went to see Stephen Kellogg & The Sixers and The Pat McGee Band tonight at House of Blues Cleveland!

WOW!!!

WOW!!!

WOW!!!

It's much too late for me to actually post something comprehendible about the concert... but, I'm so amazed by the awesome show that I at least have to say something!!!!

I've only seen Stephen Kellogg once... back in September 2002 at The Point in Philly... and that was before "The Sixers" (his AWESOME band) came along. They were hysterical tonight! Talk about stage presence. WOW!!

And as for Pat McGee... I've seen them a couple times (including on The Rock Boat 2004)... and they were equally as wonderful tonight!!

If you have a chance to see either band... GO SEE THEM!!!! (And, if you happen to live in Detroit, they're playing together May 4 and in Chicago on May 5)

Anyway... it's very late... and I'm very tired... but I had a VERY enjoyable night!! :-)

More hours in a day...

2006-04-19T22:01:00.000-05:00

Have you ever wished there were more hours in a day??

...More hours to get your projects done...

...More hours to see your friends...

...More hours to get the 6 loads of laundry done...

...More hours to visit your family...

...More hours to read the stack of magazines on the coffeetable...

...More hours to spend time with your sweetie!!...

...More hours to SLEEP!!! :-)

(Feel free to add your "more hours" in the comments...)

HAPPY EASTER!

2006-04-14T07:41:00.000-05:00

Have a happy and blessed Easter!

Image code by MySpaceDirect.com

I hope the Easter bunny is good to you! :-)

Nothing new...

2006-04-09T21:48:00.000-05:00

Wish I had something exciting to post...

- I'm still loving my new brown hair. (It's actually lightening now and looks better than at first.)
and
- My cat, Zelie, is still the absolute cutest!

Tuesday is the annual First Pitch Luncheon. I've been working late every night trying to get things done for it. We're so so close to making our goal! I'm feeling good about that. I have a great group of people working with me and I think everything is going to go well. (Or should I not have said that?!? Hope I didn't jinx it!)

Oh... I haven't posted yet about my new GPS!!! I LOVE it! It's a GPS for your car. It's like having Google Maps right in your car. :-) It even talks to you and tells you when to turn. It's come in handy a couple times already. No more printed maps for me! :-) Bob got one and thought that I'd think it was a waste... but I totally fell in love with it and had to get one for myself!

Other than that... nothing exciting. I got acrylic "fake" nails yesterday. It's been quite an adjustment. I wanted my nails to look nice for the luncheon. I like them so far. I might keep them up. Not sure though...

Well, it's bedtime. We'll chat again soon.

Isn't my kitty the cutest?!?!?!

2006-03-21T23:18:00.000-05:00

Steph and Zelie
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

I love this photo of Zelie and I!!

NEW DO!

2006-03-21T23:17:00.000-05:00

Steph's new hairdo
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

I'm always changing my hair... and last night I decided to go for a BIG change! :-) I'm now "chocolate brown"!! It's going to take some time getting used to it. :-)

Kitties in Boxes

2006-02-26T22:39:00.000-05:00

Kitties in Boxes
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

As you've read in the past... our kitties are a source of amusement for us! There's a box that sits in our office and commonly is the "bed" for my cat Zelie (orange furball pictured in the middle of the photo).

Recently, we added a few other empty boxes... and one night we decided it would be fun to put each cat in a box. (And for even more fun... I grabbed the camera and took a zillion photos!)

The cats hate being in the same room with each other... so I'm sure you can only imagine what it was like with them in boxes next to each other! Although, they were quite photogenic, except for Nix (first kitty) who refused to look up!

I seriously think Bob & I need to find something else to occupy our time...

Belated - Valentine's Day 2006

2006-02-19T19:06:00.000-05:00

Last night, Bob & I celebrated Valentine's Day since we were unable to celebrate on the actual day earlier this week. (We're taking Instructor Development so that we can teach the Public Boating courses for the Berea Power Squadron, and the first class was on Valentine' Day. Can you believe it!?!?!?)

So, we went to dinner at The New York Spaghetti House in downtown. They're famous for their "brown sauce". (Yes, it's really brown!) I've never been there. The food was really good... the service could've been better.

Following dinner, we were supposed to go to the Monster Truck Jam at The Q Arena, but Bob wasn't feeling well, so we went home. (Don't ask about the Monster Truck thing! Long story...)

We stopped at Stephen & Sarah's to borrow my favorite movie, Suicide Kings, on DVD. (I own a VHS copy, but we don't have a VCR in the living room.) I LOVE this movie!! I'm not sure why... but I do! (No, it has nothing to do with suicide!) Bob had never seen it. Unfortunately, he wasn't as impressed with it as I am.

Before we watched the movie, we "tortured" the cats with my flowers...

Nix and Schadling (the Little One) weren't amused!

Neither was Zelie...

And, of course... Bob and I had to take a "self-portrait" photo... My screensaver on my computer is a slideshow of the various photos of Bob & I. The majority are "self-portraits". (Yes, I'm a dork!)

New look!

2006-02-18T17:21:00.000-05:00

I've decided to change the look of my Blog. It needed a refresher! I hope you like it! :-)

Bob & Steph on Sanibel Island 2005

2006-02-18T11:57:00.000-05:00

Bob & Steph on Sanibel Island 2005
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

I love this photo of Bob & I on Sanibel Island during our trip to Florida over Christmas break. You can see the lighthouse in the background.

I LOVE Jewelry Making!

2006-02-12T21:20:00.000-05:00

So... I took "Jewelry & Beading I" on Saturday, and now I'm HOOKED!!!!!! Bob's aunt, Michele, has been asking me to take a craft class with her. There really wasn't anything too interesting on the list at JoAnn Fabrics. But, jewelry making stood out and she said that was fine.

We called and registered for the class. I got my supplies list in the mail, and proceeded to Pat Catan's where just about everything in the store is 40% off... and I spent over an hour staring at all the jewelry making supplies!! WOW! I had visited the jewelry aisles a couple times... trying to figure out where to even start. I love jewelry!! Any kind... expensive, cheap... it doesn't matter! So, I was pretty excited about this class!

Bob's mom, Pat, decided to join us for the class. I think I had more fun than they did! We started with a bracelet and then moved on to earrings. It was much easier than I thought it would be! Being the over-achiever that I am... I started on a necklace, but realized that they were packing up their things, so I decided to finish when I got home. Well, I made the necklace, a bracelet AND earrings! I love this!!! :-) I wore them to the Mueller's today because I was so proud of my work! :-) (Unfortunately, I didn't finish my bracelet correctly, and it broke. BUT, I didn't lose any of the beads. I guess I need to work on my technique...)

Good thing I have a lot going on this week, or else I'd be at Pat Catan's again tomorrow buying more beads. This could be quite an addictive hobby for me!! Although... I made two pairs of earrings, two bracelets, and one necklace... and the beads only cost me about $8. PLUS, I have enough leftover for another couple bracelets and/or necklaces. As long as I stay away from the REALLY expensive jewelry parts, I should be ok! :-)

Now, I need to find someone to bead with... and we can exchange beads! :-) LOL!! I'm getting carried away, aren't I????

Bob & Stephanie - Christmas 2005!

2006-02-11T21:33:00.000-05:00

This is my favorite photo of Bob & I at Christmas! It's taken with my new digital camera that Bob bought for me!

Bob & Stephanie - Christmas 2005!
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

Quickie!

2006-01-05T22:19:00.000-05:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

Bob and I got back from Florida three days ago... and I wanted to let you know that you can see all the fun photos from our trip on his website!

There are tons of photos, including...

MANY lighthouses
MANY sunsets,
and...
MANY MANY self-portrait photos of myself and of Bob and I!

Bob bought me an awesome digital camera for Christmas! It's one of my "things" to always take a self-portrait of Bob and I wherever we are. Well, the camera he bought me has a screen on the back that flips around so that when I'm holding the camera for one of our "famous self-portraits", I can look in the screen and see what the camera sees.

COOL!!

Yes, I'm a dork...

Christmas is coming...

2005-12-24T09:01:00.000-05:00

Schadling and Santa
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

(First of all... let me introduce you to Schadling (aka The Little One). I cannot believe that he was so good when we took him to see Santa! Usually he's a spaz and HATES being around people. But, this picture of him is just too cute!)

I can't believe Christmas is tomorrow! Where does the time go? And it seems to "sneak" up on me every year.

I finally wrapped my presents last night. I hate that I wait to the last minute. It's not like I don't know when Christmas is. It doesn't change from year to year.

Yesterday was the annual Christmas lunch at Mueller Art Cover. I was incharge of baking the Veggie Lasagna! :-) It was nice to put faces to the names that Bob talks about all the time.

Following lunch, I went to the mall. BIG MISTAKE!! The traffic was unbelievable. I left as quickly as I could. Why do people wait until the last minute??? (Oh... guess I shouldn't speak too loudly since I was there too! LOL!)

Last night Bob's brother, Keith, came over. We ordered pizza and had a few beers. We talked Lost, cats and politics! (Yes, we are a diverse group of people!) Unfortunately since Keith lives in D.C., I haven't spent much time with him. He's a great guy and I know if we lived closer to each other, the 3 of us would probably see each other more.

I'm packing now for Christmas weekend. Bob and I are headed to the Winking Lizard in Fairlawn to have lunch with Alex and Magi before heading to Y-Town to go to Christmas Eve mass with my family. Alex and Magi are two other people that we wish lived closer! They're in D.C. too. Bob's been friends with Alex since grade school and I've had the pleasure of meeting them a few times! Wonderful people! Maybe Bob and I need to move to the east coast?? :-) LOL!

We'll spend tonight at my parents', open presents in the morning and head off to Bob's parents' around lunchtime.

And then... Monday is FLORIDA!! I cannot wait!! I haven't packed anything, so I'm guessing I'll be up late on Christmas or up early Monday morning. Bob and I are really looking forward to this trip. We both could use some R&R. Normally when I go on vacation, I like to "go, go, go" and see as much as I can. But, last year when we went to Florida, we just relaxed and took it easy and it was wonderful. We're hoping to make a trip to see my cousin Traci and her husband Mike in Terra Ceia Bay (north of Tampa). So that will be something fun!

Bob and I wish all of you a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Enjoy the time with your family and friends. Don't forget to tell the special people in your life how much they mean to you, especially during this time of year!

Zelie's annual trip to see Santa!

2005-12-20T18:45:00.000-05:00

Steph, Zelie and Santa
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

Zelienople took his annual trip to see Santa at Petsmart on Saturday!

This year was quite interesting compared to past years. Zelie used to be a wonderful car-rider. Sure, he would meow and meow when we first got in the car, but after awhile he would fall asleep. Well, within the past 2 years, riding in the car has become quite a scary thing for him. He begins foaming at the mouth and has "little shoe strings" hanging from the corners of his mouth. (Have you seen the movie "Turner & Hooch"?? That's Zelie!!) It's such a sad sight!

So... this year, to make matters even worse... Bob and I brought Schadling (aka The Little One) with us. Bob has never taken his cats to visit Santa, so he thought he'd start with The Little One. Not only does Zelie not like riding in cars anymore... he doesn't like being around The Little One.

We put both cat carriers in the car and the meowing begins. The Little One sounding like someone was rolling over him and Zelie wailed away. One cat would meow and the other would answer back. Of course, Bob and I didn't help the situation by adding voices to their cries... "Where are they taking us?... I don't know." "Why won't they let us out of these cages?... I hate being near you." Within 10 minutes, Zelie had "shoe strings" coming out of his mouth. I felt so bad for him.

We arrive at the Petsmart in North Olmsted and after some cleaning up of Zelie... we head into the store. I was worried about bringing The Little One because he hates being around strange people, so I expected him to freak out. But, he was actually quite calm during the whole experience. Once Zelie was out of his cage, he was better too. (No more "shoe strings"... thankfully!)

It was quite an interesting afternoon. I'm sure it's one the kitties won't soon forget...

Long time... no blog... lots going on!

2005-12-11T09:19:00.000-05:00

Well, it's been quite some time since I've blogged. So, here's a quick summary of everything that's been going on (including a picture of how I would see myself as a SouthPark character! You can make YOUR OWN character by clicking here! You can also check out Bob's SouthPark character on his website.)

1. MLB Industry Meetings at Disney World! - I attended my first ever business trip and had an absolutely awesome time. I learned so much from the other teams' Community Relations reps and I also learned a lot about my fellow co-workers. I feel empowered and ready to take the company's community outreach in a new direction! (PLUS, I spent a few days in Disney World. What could be better than that!??!? Although, I didn't see Mickey Mouse!! Come to think of it... I didn't see any Disney characters. Oh well, I guess that's a good excuse to go back!)

2. Bob's 30th Birthday! - For Bob's "special" birthday, I surprised him with a trip to Niagara Falls! (Yes, we did go to the falls in the winter. And yes, we are well aware that it's COLD there in the winter!) We had a great trip! We stayed on the Canadian side at the Marriott Fallsview. Before crossing into Canada, we stopped on the American side to see the falls. Unfortunately, due to the time of the year, a lot of the parks and walkways were closed because of the mist from the falls could freeze on the lower walkways when the temperatures dropped. We saw a tourist spot called "Cave of the Winds" on Goat Island and decided to check it out. The signs said that it was the closest you could get to the falls. We learned that most of the walkways had been taken apart for the winter, but for a reduced rate of $3 per person, you could get to the main walkway. It was AWESOME!! When all the walkways are set-up, you can actually go between the two falls on the American side. You can see the photo taken of us just to the side of one of the falls. You can see part of the walkway above us, which was closed. It was amazing!! We're hoping to go back during the warmer weather and take the tour again.

We also spent an afternoon at Niagara-on-the-Lake. It's a very quaint little town along the water with gorgeous old houses and cute little shops along the main street.

We had a wonderful trip and it was nice to get away from things for a few days. We both took off the entire week of Thanksgiving! :-)

3. Bob's Surprise Dinner - The night before we left for the trip, I surprised Bob with a dinner at Tomo Hibachi in Strongsville, and invited some of his friends. We had never been to the relatively new restaurant, but had heard good things. I think he suspected something was up when I started cleaning up the condo earlier that day. I don't think he knew that people were meeting us at the restaurant, but he knew that someone was coming over. He definitely had no idea we were going to Tomo. Everyone had a great time and great food! And after dinner, everyone came over for cake and ice cream. (This was Bob's 30th Birthday Cake!! Unfortunately by the time I got to Diary Queen, the only cakes they had left had roses, rainbows or Fred Flintstone. I went with the most "man-ly" option! LOL!)

4. Gas Leak! - We had a gas leak at our condo and were without gas for a couple days -- which happened to be on the very rare 65 degree day in November! (At least we didn't have to worry about freezing without heat!!)

Bob rented excavating equipment to dig up the gas line so that it could be replaced. Luckily, the leaking pipe wasn't under the driveway. If it had been, we would've had to tear up part of the driveway to replace the pipe. I think Bob had too much fun using the equipment!

4. Sarah's 25th Birthday - My sister-in-law, Sarah, turned 25 on December 5. My parents and Grandma came up to visit and we celebrated Sarah's birthday by going to dinner at Rockne's (YUMMY!!) and then going back to S&S's for cake and ice cream! (Here's a photo of Sarah, my mom and my grandma!) During their visit, mom helped Bob and I decorate our place for Christmas. When I have time to take photos of our Christmas tree, I'll post them here!

Work's been very busy... getting ready for the Grand Slam Awards Night in January. Plus, finalizing the 2006 budget, and closing out the 2005 financials. But, on the plus side... I don't have to work any more Fridays in 2005! (Thanks for The Rock Boat cruise being cancelled by Hurricanes Katrina and Rita... I have extra vacation days.) AND, Bob and I are leaving for our "annual" Florida trip the day after Christmas. I can't wait! It's going to be great to fall asleep every night listening to the waves hitting the beach... stay tuned for photos! :-)

Thanks for reading... feel free to visit often and leave comments! I LOVE comments! :-)

Changes...

2005-10-19T22:32:00.000-05:00

Zelie and "The Little One"
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

It's been awhile since I've posted. (I love this photo! I'm not sure why I felt the need to post it... but it's funny since Zelie and "The Little One" "HATE" each other and they're "hiding" in each other's cages. I guess you had to be there... LOL!)

Lots has been going on at home and at work... as usual. First at home... Bob and I have been trying to enjoy the final weekends at the boat. This Monday (Oct. 24), the boat comes out of the water! :-( It was a really great summer. Lots of warm weather and sunshine... and I was able to enjoy the boat a lot more than I thought I would be.

We've also been getting more and more involved with the Berea Power Squadron. I'm now the Project Manager for the Boat Smart classes held at Dick's Sporting Goods in North Olmsted every Monday night. Bob's helping out with the Thursday night classes at the Strongsville Library. We went to a dinner last night with the group. It was a Jamboree theme and everyone dressed in cowboy outfits. I would've had a better time had I not had a bad day at work earlier. (More to come on that...)

My 10-year High School reunion is coming up on Friday, November 25! I'm actually excited about going. I found out my good friend, Jodi, will be attending. I haven't seen her in years.

And... I almost forgot. I'm going to Walt Disney World!!!!!!!! I can't wait!!! I'll be representing the community relations/charities departments for the Indians at the annual MLB Industry Meetings. There will be 22 people from the Indians attening the meetings, including my new boss! This is going to be a wonderful opportunity for me to interact with various people in the company, as well as meet my counterparts at the other MLB teams! We're staying at the Disney Yacht Club (which is GORGEOUS!!!) and we're having an event at EPCOT!! So excited!!!

Speaking of work... developing news... I have a new boss! The community relations and charities departments will now be reporting to a different VP. No more reporting to BD. We had a meeting today and were told of the new department structure. Of course, as with any change it's going to take some getting used to ... but after thinking about the situation for the past 24 hours, I believe that this is definitely going to be a positive opportunity for me. I just need to keep an open mind, stay positive and be confident in my abilities!

LOVE THE SHOW!!!

2005-10-12T23:05:00.000-05:00

I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE Lost!!!! I admit it. I'm totally addicted to the show!!!

Bob and I didn't jump on the bandwagon last season when everyone was talking about the show. We started watching the show this summer when ABC re-aired season one. Unfortunately, they didn't show all 24 episodes. But, we were HOOKED from the very first episode!!

So, last weekend because I'm obsessed with Lost... I went out and bought season one on DVD and we watched the first 12 episodes. Most of them we had seen, but while re-watching some of the episodes, we noticed things we didn't see the first time.

Yes, I'll admit that I'm crazy, but this show is sooooooooo addicting!! I even read some of the message boards to try and figure out the "secret" behind Lost. There are some wild and crazy theories out there.

If you haven't watched it, you're missing out!!!!!

What a ride!!

2005-10-02T18:58:00.000-05:00

Bob & Steph @ the Jake
Originally uploaded by zeliecat.

Well, the Tribe's season has official come to a close. What an exciting few weeks it's been! I won't say I'm entirely disappointed. It'll be nice to put an "end" to this season of work... and start looking toward next season. However, I definitely would have enjoyed the ride in the post-season.

But, as we say each season.... "there's always next year"! :-)

Still nothing "new" at work with my department of one situation, although I finally had my evaluation with Bobby and it went VERY well. (I'm keeping my fingers crossed that his recommendation is approved. More details to come... soon, I hope!)

The new challenge at work is to complete CIC's 2006 budget by October 14. I'm definitely excited about putting together the budget and coming up with new and exciting ways to improve upon our existing events and create new streams of revenue. This will be an awesome opportunity for me!

Boating season, unfortunately, is winding down. I actually did more boating this year than I originally thought I'd do. For the 2006 season, we're moving the boat to Dock of the Bay Marina in Sandusky. It's a beautiful marina!!! The boat has been there for the past few weekends; however, I haven't been up much. (This past weekend, I had a 4-day weekend!!! I went to Y-Town to spend time with mom, dad and grandma. I enjoyed the trip very much!) So, I'm looking forward to spending some time there this weekend.

Bob & I have become quite involved with the Berea Power Squadron. (Above is a photo of us at the Power Squadron's Group Night @ the Indians game set-up by yours truly!) Bob's helping with a few Safe Boating classes and I've been talked into taking on the role as coordinator of the weekly Boat Smart classes at Dick's Sporting Goods. (If you ever want to learn about safe boating, come to Dick's at the Great Northern Mall on a Monday night at 7pm to take the free classes!) The Berea Power Squadron is a great group and Bob & I have definitely been enjoying getting to know the members better and getting more involved.